In my opinion, most of this information is sound . BUT Step Four [quote]The only time you should spill your guts to a woman is if they do it first. This is an extremely important concept for you to grasp. Never underestimate the power of “does he like me?” warfare. It works. [/quote] High-school,I had a girl I was best friends with for years,since Fr year. It stayed that way for a while, Sr. year, long story short she got into a car wreck,was in the hospital for some weeks. I kept checking on her and all that crap, eventually we ended up dating. Graduation rolled around, going separate ways, Seeing as to I'd probably never see her again & we knew it had to end(LolNoLongdistanceWaitForMe), I told her, I had always liked and blah feels blah it was always her, Then she told me...She always liked me,she never stopped, but didn't know if I felt the same way,so she never spoke on it. I though she was happy with who she was dating all those years,and she thought I was happy going from fling to fling and we were just great friends. So for a while I had "What If", but I'm long over that,just making a point. In Short, It took 4 F*cking years and a wreck for someone to speak up , because we were both on "What if she/he doesn't like me that way" "maybe we are just friends" and no one wants to make it awkward. So,I think RARELY, it comes a time when You need to speak up about your feels. She isn't always going to speak 1st. [quote]Date more than one girl at a time [/quote] You can, but you getting caught up will mess up your rep, and you will establish a rep in high school/College. Certain women shy away from cheaters,just as a guy would shy away from a chick with a bad rep. You should put get used to, or get over the fear of getting shot down up there. You can do all that mess perfect,doesn't guarantee anything, but don't let it ruin your confidence.