When a guy dates a girl for a while, it's exhausting to devote all the attention and compliments to the girl like when they first met. Guys tend to lay off the compliments and attention because it's pretty much implied at this point that they care about you. If you "bug" him less, then maybe he'll appreciate your more rare attempts to communicate. And I know you've tried talking to him, but have you tried to do so in a manner that is appropriate? ("(Name), recently I've been feeling really depressed and disappointed because we haven't been communicating with each other as much and aren't as intimate. I love you a lot and love every moment I get to be around you and talk to you. I was hoping we could improve...yadda yadda yadda" The video posted could be very relevant though lol