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由Juan Martinez编辑：
6/26/2014 3:12:18 PM
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Relationship help. (Updated again)
Yeah I'm horrible, I made a relationship thread, yattayatta. So, down to business. I've known this grill for a really long time. For the past three years or so, we've been really good friends. Despite what everyone seemed to say, I never had a crush on her until very recently. I don't think she likes me back but I can't be completely sure. What do I do? My biggest fear is ruining our friendship. Haaaaalp!
inb4 stick it in her pooper
inb4 toast/envelope
Edit: So my situation is much worse now. My other good friend, for the purposes of this she will be known as #2, is this grill # 1's best friend. # 2 knows I like # 1 and she doesn't want it to happen because she doesn't want to be a third wheel. Now I don't wanna -blam!- up my friendship with her. Wat do
inb4 Code Name Kid's Next Door
So in case you haven't realized by now, I've never had a grillfriend before and I'm not exactly an expert on it (hence me making this thread). So I'm starting to think I might not actually like this person. I mean, (as cliche as it sounds) I can't get her out of my head. But on the flip side, I can't imagine myself kissing or hugging or doing... stuff with this person. Do I like her? Help Flood!
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1 回复Go for it, tell her how you fell. Based on personal experience, if she does reject you then you [i]should[/i] be able to maintain your friendship with her. (Though, you may have to give it some time.) As long as you don't do something [i]really[/i] stupid of course. As far as #2 goes, you probably won't lose her as a friend if her reason is legitimate. Though, her response to the situation does suggest there might be something else that you do not know.
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1 回复Been there, done that, shrank the T-shirt in the dryer. Sometimes the crush you start feeling is due to how comfortable you are around the person, the fact that they're the gender you're attracted to, and they have qualities you'd like in a partner. Think about it, lasting relationships usually involve being friends with the other person. Thus, you tend to look for qualities your friends have when dating, so this sort of thing happens quite often. It sucks, hardcore, but sometimes there's nothing you can do other than to just try to accept the feelings, and not act on them. If you're comfortable enough with the person, you can always tell them, and trust that they'll let you down easy (thus helping you get over the feelings via closure). That can easily backfire and ruin a friendship, so don't try that unless you're sure how they'll react.
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11 回复>Asking help from a forum full of beta kids (No I'm not a beta kid... [spoiler]I'm a chi adult ;)[/spoiler]) Good job >__>
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7 回复Try being friends with someone since you were 6, then being really good friends with her for the past few years and then starting to have feelings for her. It's a -blam!-ing bitch, especially when you know you're -blam!-ed. OP, my advice is this, if you tell don't tell her that you have feelings for her, you will either die or go insane.
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1 回复It's too late I'm afraid. Your window of opportunity closed about 2 years and 11 months ago. On top of that you have the 2nd girl working against you. The odds are stacked against you man. Eject Goose! Eject!
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1 回复由Qwerty编辑： 6/23/2014 3:36:31 PMGive that grill a poem, grills love poems. [i]Roses are Red Violets are Blue Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?[/i]
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That is kinda what I am going through right now. Just slight differences. I have known this girl i like for like 5 years now and we have been really good friends. Her bestfriend knows I like her and has tried to get me to ask her out. The thing is, I asked her out before and she said we shouldn't get together right now. She have me this explanation. I don't want anything in this relationship to break up our friendship if anything bad happened. We are still really good friends today (we may have gotten a bit closer). Is this good or bad?
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