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4/27/2014 9:07:55 PM
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I need girl advice.
Ok so there's this girl I work with. I like her a lot. She's cute, seems smart, and just seems to have most of what I look for. I really want to ask her out and I know I can. However I'm worried about dating a coworker especially since this girl works in the same department I do. Also if she turns me down it would be awkward seeing her at work. Any advice?
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17 回复I had the sameish issue awhile back with a guy (I'm a girl). We were in the same musical production and were both leads. We were interested in each other but as time went on things just went downhill and it ended really badly. I know that you like her and want to date her, but honestly dating someone who is your coworker is a bad idea unless the both of you are in it 200% for the long haul. It just isn't a good idea to date someone who you work with, because then your business becomes everyone else's business at your place of employment (trust me on this). Wait and just be friends with her. If things are meant to be then it'll happen naturally. However, if nothing happens don't be discouraged! The one that's meant for you is out there; just be patient! :)
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I truefully dont know how your fealing but me being only 14 could and would say get to know her then ask her out and i know for a fact that when you do deside to ask her out if you got to know her you will find out what she likes and dislikes and if you impress her she might ask you out you never no. But and i mean but make sure she hasnt got a guy already because you would cause a big amount of aekwardness between you just make sure some how. And good luck
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[quote]However I'm worried about dating a coworker especially since this girl works in the same department I do. Also if she turns me down it would be awkward seeing her at work. Any advice?[/quote] I was in the same situation not too long ago, and I also thought it was going to be awkward seeing her at work. But it actually wasn't all that bad. If she turns you down, just keep acting like you normally do around her and keep it cool, like if it's no big deal. Worked for me. Now she talks to me more than before.
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5 回复Just ask her out. If she says no, cool. Whatever. If you date, don't act like you're dating when you're at work together. Be professional.
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4 回复SCREW THE AWKWARDNESS. IF SHE TURNS YOU DOWN SHOW UP AT WORK THR NEXT DAY LOOKING BETTER THAN YOU EVER HAVE BEFORE AND WHEN SHE WALKS UP TO YOU PUT YOUR HAND OVER HER FACE AND PUSH HER TO THE SIDE AS YOU SWAG WALK.
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1 回复How serious are you about this job? If you don't plan on staying there forever you really have nothing to lose.
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1 回复Don't date a Co-worker man. Trust me odds are it will end and then it would be just terrible to go to work.
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Then why not develop a friendship with her first? If you two hit it off and there seems to be something more, go for it. Not every relationship has to start with coffee, and not every coffee date needs to lead to a relationship.
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1 回复Don't come out of the blue and ask her a question like that, hint to her that you're interested and you'll be able to tell from her reactions whether she's interested too. And if she isn't, you don't have to deal with rejection.
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3 回复Unless it's your career workplaces are the best places to get with girls. Have a mate who's worked in a bunch of pubs/restaurants and he shags like half the female staff there. Doesn't give a phuck or act like it's awkward afterwards at all.
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1 回复Just keep your relationship professional at work if you decide to go through with it. I think quite a few employers frown upon this sort of thing though.
