[quote]a guy who identifies as a girl[/quote]Generally queer, as far as my sleep deprived brain remembers. For all other intents and purposes, it's she/her unless otherwise specified by the person. [quote]guy who has has surgery and hormones to become a girl[/quote]Generally the same as a "natural" female, but if you're looking for technical specifics, it's "transwoman". [quote]they're all just labeled trannies and ignored and that's pretty sad.[/quote]Most of the correct terminology is out there, just that people think their early-age minimal education on the subject is far superior to anything they could and should learn from the community itself and science/psychology/biology/sociology.