Look, I don't understand how you can go ahead and deny your sense of attraction? It's not like you're thinking 'omg I want to be with that person.' it's an appreciation for the human body. Hey, that girl has some nice breasts. Wow, she has some nice skin, and a cute nose. Oh, I like her voice. It's the little things in woman that they look at. A wife is a 'whole' package. You love her for everything she is. You appreciate her for everything she is / represents. If you find something attractive on someone else, it's just that - an object on that person, not the person.

[quote]It's not like you're thinking 'omg I want to be with that person.'[/quote] Actually, that's exactly what guys would be thinking.

...so? I also look at the Baconator without breaking my diet. I watch Epic Meal Time for just that reason. Me watching the creation and consumption of 40,000 calories of bacon doesn't break my 1600 calorie per day diet.