TL;DR;TL;DR;TL;DR Boy wants to like girl with problems, mainly political, mainly methodology-related, boy is libertarian/AnCap, girl is authoritarian, possibly a bit psychopathic/cowardly at times. Girl hangs with bad people, boy hangs with no one. Girl will end up ded or in jail without boy, possibly as well as others. Boy feels boy hasn't lived a day in iz lyf and can do so better with girl's help. Boy is anti-police/is pro-open-borders, girl is pro-police/pro-borders. Girl is alcoholic, boy is sober. Girl is pragmatic, boy is principled. Both share in a plethora of personal/entertainment interests and even socio-political/economic too, to the point of 80 percent overlap, and are very compatible, in boy's eyes, but girl's 20 percent rhetoric, actions, associates in disagreement and disapproval from boy weighs like a ton of bricks. Advice? Boy wants to be with girl, personally and professionally and help people with 'er, side-by-side.