I'm over partying up to organize (and lead) a bunch of random people to loot. 10 years ago I would have been all up in that, but it's not relaxing and not fun anymore. Relaxing to me is doing coop activities that don't require much coordination but still a little bit to hack around in. Strikes are good for that, but not very rewarding. Archons Forge was really fun to kill some time in. PvP is normally fun when its relaxed but has turned into a hyper competitive sweat fest for people who play 14 hours a day with their clan (ie most streamers) So idk. I guess Destiny doesn't have much to offer the player who likes unorganized coop, light competition, a massive variety of rewards and tinkering to loadouts, and exploration.