I know the title may be inflammatory to some, so I'll start by saying I love the destiny community and usually have no issues.
Anytime I raid with a team that's over 50% strangers I always wind up getting kicked. Regardless of my K/d, light, dps or general wipe-causing--blam!-ups I'm always the one kicked.
Am I being paranoid? Or am I being penalized for bing a girl?
Most girls are great players so I bet it something else.
There is a kid tax and ghetto tax for sure.
You sound like a 12 year old or got rap music blasting in the background ?
Edit: and then there's the iPhone tax. You know, when you're too cheap to get real headphone and your mic beams out a god awful sound because you are using iPhone earbuds.