Most of my friends were like you and it drove me insane. I've always had terrible luck in destiny

Before the taken King dropped there was between a .5-3% chance shaders would drop from packages. Not its consistently around 5% from what I understand

No I'm unfortunately serious. I had to rank up my 1st warlock to the early 40's, my hunter to 23, and my other older warlock to around 50. Even then nothing dropped until the taken King. After the taken King I got all the shaders except one and the ship. I was the laughing stock of my raid group for consistently having such bad luck. It's all random.

If so I'd say rank 5 I'm rank 30 right now and have a ship and all the shaders