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由MUSICAL_NNJA_CAT编辑: 9/25/2015 7:49:54 PM
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Just a question, not looking for hate

Ok, so. Over the summer break my best friend [spoiler]who is a guy, i am a girl[/spoiler] and i stopped being friends. We had feelings for each other before that, but back to the story. Over summer i met my now boyfriend and was talking about him to my besy friend, i tell him i had never been happier. [spoiler]back story on why my best friend and i werent dating anymore. Hr had called me fat, im very self conscious and had compared me to a girl he had a crush on who is younger, skinnier and i feel is prettier. You dont do that guys. You just dont,[/spoiler] so, i said that and being my best friend he should be happy that im over my anxiety and depression, instead he just says to stop talking about it and that he doesnt want to talk. So i say 'what is it that im falling for another guu that you dont like? You are my best friend, im a girl, im gonna talk abouy guys!' And he got really mad. A few days later he told me to never talk to him again. Then compared me yet again to another girl, who he knows i dont like. So, who do you think was in the wrong? Me or him? Remeber, we were best friends... bros. And, he also has a big mouth and a comment for everything. Either way, just asking for a few opinions

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  • You said that you [i][b]dont[/b][/i] do that kinda thing to a girl by calling her fat. Well, you [i][u][b]DON'T[/b][/u][/i] take your guy friends for granted and ramble on ceaselessly about your boyfriend, especially if you've known them longer. You know that depression and anxiety you were talking about? Take that feeling of not being good enough and then imagine having your heart stomped on by someone you cared enough about to stay with for any length of time, even if they didn't acknowledge you. That being said, you're right that he should be happy that you're happy. But he doesn't have any obligation to be happy about you finding a boyfriend even if that's the reason you're happy. It's kinda like how you love your family members, but you don't always like them. [b][i]TL;DR[/i][/b]: You both -blam!-ed up. He was insensitive about your appearance, and you his feelings.

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