Okay, so now it's time for the developers to give you information to give to us the community about optional matchmaking. Just because you've put it on the "wish list" and assured us that the devs know doesn't mean the conversation is over.
You receive scorn over your suggestions because they are tired. Many of us have used the forums to no avail, and many of us have communicated for [b][u]months[/u][/b] that a external solution is not the practical solution.
You, of course, won't see this. A pity really.