Let's say I go into a game whether it's Destiny, Halo, CoD, etc and I get a friend request, I immediately ignore it. Not because of the whole "guy wants me because I'm a girl" thing but because I just don't know you. I really don't care about people wanting me because I'm a girl but don't expect girls to soften up either. Personally, I'm cool with anyone that's willing to be my friend and wants to hang with me. And if I get those rare "are you a girl?" "Hey baby let's hook up" "Slut" I laugh lol If guys were to just talk to me or ask me "hey cool shader! Where did you get it?" Or any questions I will not hesitate to reply back. It's a plus if you're polite in the beginning but don't try too hard either. Be yourself, get a conversation going and play games with the chick.