“Our culture has accepted two huge lies. The first is that if you disagree with someone’s lifestyle, you must fear or hate them. The second is that to love someone means you agree with everything they believe or do. Both are nonsense. You don’t have to compromise convictions to be compassionate.” There is a massive difference between advocating against gay marriage and telling people they're going to burn in hell. Conservatives and WBC are not united against gay marriage, mostly because WBC doesn't give two shits about politics.