Way before him was a British woman named, Barbara Woodhouse. "Walkies!" She said that there are no bad dogs, just bad owners. I agree.
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由Hugs編輯: 5/27/2025 11:18:22 PMI agree, too, if our definition of "bad owners" includes those with good intentions and love in their heart but are simply "inexperienced" and/or "untrained" themselves. People are learning, too, ya know. And some dogs are much harder to train than others, especially for some people. But yeah, you can't blame a healthy dog (i.e., doesn't have rabies or something). Thanks for the suggestion. I just looked her up and yeah, you're right. She does goes back some time...to the days of VCRs. Cool. The fact you know about her suggests to me that you likely have a dog and are not a teenager.
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I have nothing against inexperienced owners, or owners with difficult dogs. As long as they're honest about the issues and are actively learning somehow. Puppy/new dog classes are best. Experienced dog handlers can help before behaviours get bad or unsafe. I'm honest enough to admit there are dogs that I couldn't handle properly. I grew up with multiple dogs in the house. Not every dog breed/temperament is a fit for every person. If people don't get caught up in a "must have this breed", and are honest about themselves and their own personality, then they can find the right dog to fit their home.
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Good stuff! Yeah, I've always had terrific dogs growing up. Never violent, always happy. We had lots of property for them to run wild and play, too. I'm learning sooo much from watching these vids. I feel like a pro already haha......but there's a big difference between knowing something and actually being able to do it.
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由purplespider1976編輯: 5/28/2025 1:47:18 AMVery true. It is much easier to watch than to do anything! Experts make it look easy, and we don't see the hours and hours of time and effort they spent to be an expert! One of the things Cesar was really good at in the Dog Whisperer was identifying the small signs of tension/stress/upset/whatever in a dog to help the owners correct the behaviour before it escalates. Timing with his methods was huge. Dogs use body language and eye contact to tell the world how they're feeling. If people can learn even a little bit of that, it helps a lot! Sounds like you're starting your own adventure with a new 4-legged friend. Good luck and enjoy the friendship if that's the case! I don't currently have one, my life right now isn't fair to a dog. :(
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由Hugs編輯: 5/28/2025 2:49:02 AMYeah, I was surprised and then impressed when he paused his training to wait for the dog to finish certain moods. As a kid, I think you kinda just have a sense of feel for the animal. There's that raw connection. It's still there as an adult, but it's just not the same. As for having my own little 4-legged buddy: I also can't have one atm. My parents have 2, though. I just love animals and enjoy learning. I'll pick something random and dive full into for an hour, day, week, month...what ever, especially if they're one of the best at what they do. So, when I found the Dog Whisperer and saw him at work, I was hooked.
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由purplespider1976編輯: 5/27/2025 11:36:19 PMHahaha! I can dimly remember watching her with my Mum and brother. Maybe. Probably on TVO. We only got about 4 or 5 channels at the time. "Walkies" was definitely in the family slang for a long time anyway. I agree that most dogs' issues are caused by owners. I've experienced interactions with other dogs, where if it had been my black lab/Rottweiler mix, (miss her a lot) people would have been calling the town. Since it was a smaller dog, it was "cute" and not a serious issue. I talked to a Dad who had a prong collar on a 1-year old golden retriever 'cause they hadn't taken the dog to puppy class and their 3yr old daughter wanted to walk it!!! First - get yourselves and the dog to classes! Second - a small child should never be walking a dog of any size. That's how dislocated joints and broken bones happen! (Yes, I know a 6yr old who ended up w a dislocated shoulder and a fractured wrist when the dog bolted.) Sorry for the rant. This stuff bothers me.
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No worries, that was a very polite rant haha. What country are you from? You say 'mum' rather than 'mom'. And and few other words or phrases you use make me think you have an accent. I'm from Canada, and I grew up with 1 channel because my dad accidentally cut the cable when he was using a rototiller to make a garden (larger in size than a CFL football field...we ate so well) on our property and he couldn't afford to fix it...also, we didn't complain because we were good kids. Just kidding. We never complained because we all preferred to play outside.
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I'm Canadian, too. My parents are both English, so some of my words (Mum) and phrases carried from them. (We came by the "walkies" honestly!) We grew up rural. No cable access, and their place still can't get cable. We spent the summers swimming in the big pond, playing with the dogs, and helping with the vegetable garden. Mum used to send us out early to pick for dinner. She knew at least half would end up in our tummies! I still love garden fresh veggies.
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由Hugs編輯: 5/28/2025 2:54:16 AMOh yeah! Freshly picked sweet peas and carrots were so delicious. We ate them with dirt still on them. And rhubarb pie! MMMMM!!!! I also had a big pond to swim in, with a willow tree next to it. After watching The 3 Ninja's, we put sheets of plywood across the water so we could run across them like ninjas. I had such a wonderful childhood growing up. So. much love and freedom. I truly feel blessed. And I have an incredible amount of compassion for those who grew up otherwise. We had all sorts of fruit trees and berries. Tons of wild life, including bears, cougars, elk, and more all in our yard. A bunch of chickens with one scary rooster who was terrified of me (I dropped a rock on him...My big brothers were scared of it and I wasn't messing around), even a cow and some pigs. It wasn't a farm but we had property. We built tree forts all over the place. Had a trampoline, a massive sandbox with swings, tires, a see-saw. I could go on. I'm a country boy and a small town adult, with very little city living. Sounds like you and I both had wonderful childhoods. I'm glad to hear that about you. We truly are lucky to live in Canada. It's so sad to see people allow hatred into their heart. The world is such a mess. But I'll keep the positive vibes rolling so I'll end that line of thinking. Oh, and when I said "cut the cable," I never meant cable tv but the cable wire to our giant satellite dish. He accidentally cut the cable wire. Anyway, we eventually hit golf balls at the dish.
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Fresh peas ( though I hated shelling them), green beans (my personal favourite), big tomatoes, small tomatoes, sweet corn, cucumbers, zucchini, carrots. Mmm, all tasty from the garden. We'd pick strawberries and raspberries from a farm down the road. Mum would make homemade jam from them. The pond was used for swimming, fishing (rainbow trout and bass), playing in the row boat/canoe/kayak, and catching frogs and assorted minnows and bugs in the summer. In winters it got cleaned off for skating. There was an area for messing around with sticks and pucks, and there was also a "fast track" around the perimeter for just doing laps. It was bigger than town arena ice, so you could really get moving! Lots of wild birds. The bigger wildlife was kept out of the area by the local farmers with culls, mostly for coyotes and wolves. There were a few friendly beef cows at the farm next door who'd let us pat them through the fence. We always loved watching the calves be born and grow up. We did know the hamburgers came from cows, but it never bothered us. I'm a country girl living in a small town now. I, too, did my big city living, but when it came time to decide where I wanted to live, there was no doubt I'd end up rural again. I do work in the big city, so I have to be close enough to drive in, unfortunately. We didn't have a giant satellite dish. We just had the antenna to tune in to watch tv. There weren't many choices, so we were very happy to be busy with "stuff".
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由Hugs編輯: 5/29/2025 7:52:37 AMi cracked up laughing when you mentioned catching frogs. Salamanders too! We lived on a mountain with a nice view of the valley. I had a hamster when I was small, whom I considered my friend. I brought him and my toys up the hill, just above our house and near a creek, and I'd play there for hours! Made him a little home there, too. He was the living toy who walked among my other toys. Anyway, the day progressed and I was called inside for lunch or dinner and so I left the little guy there in his base while I ate. In intended to return after filling ma belly but, unfortunately, I forgot about him there... and then it came time for bed... As I lay there looking up at the ceiling, rain drops coming down, I heard thunder and immediately thought of my hamster (still can't remember his name). I was so worried for him, so my mom and eldest brother braved the oncoming storm and went out in search for him, with lightning coming down. I was too small so I wasn't allowed to help, even though I protested. But they gave me a solid promise to find him, so I calmed down. It felt like forever (they were gone maybe an hour or 2)! But they both returned with my little friend. He was safe, and so I could finally sleep. Sooo many stories! It's funny how the generations prior often tell the current generation of how they're missing out on so much. And now, Elon Musk says within just a few years we will have humanoid robots that will unlock our economic potential, making humans have want for nothing since the robots will eventually take care of things. He aims for life with robots to be like star trek, rather than like iRobot. Safe, where we explore the stars...not running for our lives in fear. Yep...the world changes quickly. Experts in their field can't even keep up. They're designing for a future where we send our driverless cars to pickup our friends, or collect our groceries from robots who load them into the vehicle. Computing power is rapidly increasing. The entire ocean has been mapped out, apparently, too. With so many interesting things in this world, it actually amazes me how any of us spend our time playing Destiny 2. But then I shoot a cabal in the face, and all is right in the world....muahahahahawaffles :p Anyway, sounds like you had a rather large pond if you could fish in it and kayak around. Almost a tiny lake. Being able to see the stars with waters reflection is something city folk miss out on every night. That and the sound of crickets chirping and owls hooting. Did you ever have any loons on it? They make one of my favourite sounds. Heck, I've come face-to-face with a grey wolf and a black bear. Had a cougar in our tree right outside our bedroom window, too. The bear came up right over a bank just 5 feet from me. I had bear training but I took off running so damn fast! I was just little and walking home from school. While on all 4's, it's shoulders stood taller than me. Training went right out the window lol. Thankfully it never chased me but just casually continued on its way. As for the wolf, my younger brother and I were waiting for the school bus in the morning when it appeared, jogging down the road toward us. I life my brother onto the boulder beside us and I stood at the base (not because I was brave but because I was unable to climb it in time). The wolf came close, maybe 10-20 ft (can't recall)). We yelled and our dog came running. The wolf left. The scariest, though( I was petrified and actually couldn't move), was seeing my first ever moose. A giant massive bull moose. I must have been 4 to 6 years old. It's crazy how big they can get! You should watch [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lE_xGnkIs1M]The Adventures of the Wilderness Family[/url]. It's a great movie series. Rather intense if you're a kid! 3-toes, the grizzly, is terrifying.