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由The Grimoire Guardian編輯: 6/26/2016 5:28:08 PM
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me and my girlfriend love playing games together, but lately we can't do hardly anything because her controller has the A button almost literally inside the controller. And I know you could just take it to a store and have them fix it but we don't have the time or money at the moment. I've tried dabbing rubbing alcohol on it and such but in the end it still won't budge. Whenever we play games that require a lot of jumping or holding the A button it's just no fun and we'd have to take turns with one controller. It seems like taking it apart would be a good idea but on my own I don't want to risk having to buy a new one. Any suggestions?

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    • All of tht sounds as she wants n needs lots n lots of attention. N she also seems like the impatient type, slightly controlling n easily irritated. I know the exact reason as why she's constantly throwing tantrums She wants you to show her that she's the whole world for you. You get distracted by games n she thinks that you don't care enough about her. Thts called insecurity. She's also super clingy n if something doesn't go her way thn she gets mad. You solve this with a serious talk. You still love her but you won't give up something that you like because she wants to. Just because you don't respond or whatever doesn't mean you don't care. She needs to learn relationship discipline even if she might not like it. Compromises. [spoiler]hope this post is serious...[/spoiler]

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    • She means well but she's defiantly being clingy. You need to tell her that you need some space or like a candle that burns twice as bright your relationship will end prematurely, it's like playing the same game for 2 months every day you need to take short breaks or you won't wanna play it for ages. Even if this conversation does end up breaking you two up it's worth it because it's going to happen anyway and this way you might be able to get it into her head so with her next lover she might not be so clingy and she can be happier. I know it's scary to do something like this but try. Mabey right out what you wanna say that will bring you confidence. Good luck with what ever you decide to do.

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    • 由cool cake編輯: 6/9/2016 3:27:49 AM
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      • Umm smash her

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      • If you love her, you'll do what you can to make her happy. Sometimes, you gotta do thing you hate to make people happy. Also,try talking to her about a compromise with time with her and game time.

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      • That's kinda how girls are (Inb4feminists). You don't like some of her habits and she doesn't like some of yours but that's normally what's included in a relationship.

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      • Both girls, smells like troll. Ill answer seriously though: I have this same issue with my wife. She always wants attention, and I like my games a little too much. Just try to work it out, be open and talk to her. Communication is the key to preserving relationships (along with being able to come to a middle ground on matters)

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      • You need to take time off your games and she needs to chill not many people like to be together all day everyday

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      • [quote]mainly because we're both girls ha[/quote] Holy shit now that is a plot twist!

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        • Ok it's ether her, or the game you choose man

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          • Get rid of her...she is too controlling and will make your life miserable in the future. You should love your partner for who they are and not how you want them to be. 18 is too young for a serious relationship anyway...dont waste the most fun period of your life with somebody who is treating you badly.

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            • Same boat, mostly- Firstly I dont think its healthy for any couple to be together everyday all day. You dont need to be glued to someone 24/7 to love them. I think thats a hollywood movie thing put into us. Currently, I think my girlfriend is trying to get into console gaming as a way to spend more time with me. Not really sure, honestly. Its not a bad idea though. Share interests and what not. But the whole thing about not being allowed to talk to other girls? Thats dangerous. People that do that kind of stuff have some real insecurities. You might want to talk to them about it.

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              • Neither of you sound mature enough for a relationship, in my opinion. You sound like you can't handle giving up game time for her and she can't handle that you're not always going to want to be around her.

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                • Pee on her to show dominance

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                • Ask your parents. They'll give you the most honest answer there is. F

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                • Possible options include 1. Explain to her that, while she [i]is[/i] the most important person in your life, you need time for yourself and can't be expected to be doing nothing whenever she wants. That's pretty much it. Shit if I had bothered to do this 9-ish years ago who knows, maybe id still be with my first girlfriend. Maybe. But no one has the right to expect you to drop whatever you're doing just for them. As for the playing single player games when she visits, just let her from time to time. She might be trying the game out to see if she likes it.

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                  • And you come to offtopic for advice? Yeah no.

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                  • +1 on having understanding parents that allow that. Also it could be she doesn't feel appreciated enough or like you really want her. Somedays people just need to be told how much they are wanted. Even if she does understand your love for games that doesn't really mean much. It honestly just sounds like she feels neglected. If you still had these issues even when giving most of your time to her then you might need to sit down with her and explain personal space. Stress that it doesn't mean that you don't want her anymore or that you're losing interest. Just that you enjoy some alone time. I think for any relationship to be healthy people need their own time and space every now and then. But I'm 23 and single so what do I know?

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                  • 由LahDsai編輯: 6/7/2016 7:19:44 AM
                    [quote]- Playing a game when I answer her phone call (She hears it)[/quote]kind of douchey [quote]- Not texting back right away[/quote]common relationship problem, don't sweat it (be warned though, this could be a warning sign for clingy, manipulative behavior) [quote]- Having another girl on my friendliest[/quote]I'm guessing you mean "friend list"? Not your problem, but it is playing with fire. Tread cautiously. [quote]- Me asking for an hour of alone time[/quote]depending on how you ask, this is a perfectly reasonable request [quote]- When she's over asking to play a single player game just for a little while[/quote]again, a bit douchey Some of the other things you mentioned seem like common problems that come with immaturity. I don't mean offense by that, just that you're both seem a bit young in terms of understanding how relationships work. Given your age, this is perfectly normal and to be expected. However, it also seems like maybe you both are looking for different things in your relationship. If you want this to work, you're going to need to get on the same page and make some compromises. You may feel, however, that too many compromises are being made. If that's the case, it may be an indication that this relationship is not what's best for either of you right now.

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                  • 1) you're both kids 2) finish highschool first before you even "pretend" to have real world troubles 3) if your significant other does not like how you use your spare time; [spoiler]your relationship is not ever going to work[/spoiler]

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                    • Talk to her, obviously gaming is important to you, and if you're both 18 you don't constantly need to be around each other. Tell her even if you are in a relationship, that you still need time to be you. Now don't completely abuse this. Make sure you do the little things for her, nothing huge really. Usually when I get a good morning text from my partner that makes the whole day better, or when she would make me coffee. Even if gaming is a big part of your life, make her feel like she's the top priority. Even if it means pausing your game, or finding a hiding spot when she calls you. Maybe she's just like that because she feels like you care about gaming more then her. Trust me, I'm a huge gamer, and my girlfriend isn't a fan, but we found away to make it work. We made a compromise with each other. When I play games, I make sure the day after, I spoil her. In return she allows me to continue on with gaming. Of course we get into arguments, it's all part of the deal. Hopefully this helps a little.

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                    • [quote] She's allowed to spend the night at my house, mainly because we're both girls ha.[/quote] Not trying to offend but i dont think people read this so they are giving advice on a guys view

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                    • I'm not saying you should feel the same as I do, because your girl does sound like she doesn't respect your time to yourself and your hobbies, but I personally would love to have a girl who wants to spend a lot of time with me. cx

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                    • 由CaptainMericah編輯: 6/7/2016 5:33:59 AM
                      Communicate how you feel. Don't be accusatory or defensive. Use "I feel" statements. Ex: I feel that it is unfair that you get angry with me because I am playing a game when you call me on the phone. I was already playing when you called, and I couldn't pause right away. You should also try compromising, like putting the game down for a minute if you reach a stopping point. The only thing that I find concerning about your problem is the getting upset over not texting back, and having other girls on your friends list. That's controlling behavior that needs to be addressed. If it's under an hour we are talking about with the texts, that's definitely unreasonable. My girlfriend hates that I don't text back right away, but I tell her that [i]I feel[/i] like I shouldn't have to have my phone in my hand all the time, and that not texting does not mean I am ignoring her, or do not like talking to her, or that I'm not thinking about her. I do not [i]feel[/i] the same way about my phone as I do my girlfriend. Those two things are not the same. The whole "I feel" things sounds awkward and cheesy to say all the time, but it's a well accepted and supported conflict resolution method. Try this for a while, and if things don't start to improve in a few weeks (notice I didn't say that things will get completely better in that time), you may have to take a break from the relationship. It doesn't have to be a permanent one, though breaks often end that way. You have to be willing to make changes, too, you can't just expect her to change without making some sacrifices yourself. It has to go both ways where it can.

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                    • Before offtopic can make any logical conclusion on what action you should take, you should post a picture of the two of you so we can make a more informed decision.

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