My wife comes home and sits next to me and I mute my mic while we talk about our days, I don't straight up ignore her. I unmute and communicate when necessary. I'm sorry but half the time you aren't raiding with friends, you are raiding with randoms and want to get it done. So you telling me to sit here and wait while you handle some personal business is kind of annoying. "Greeting" someone is one thing, but leaving for 10 to 15 minutes to do something you could easily do when the raid is done is inconsiderate to everyone else.

I personally am almost always raiding with mostly clan members/friends, so I guess the tone is different. I'd rather not play with randoms, and if I do, I value my lady way way more than their cooperation. After all, I don't really play very "seriously" anymore, almost anything I do in destiny is to help someone else.

See, if that were the case I would be ok with it. Unfortunately, though, I don't have many friends that play anymore and I am not in a clan, so I have one or two people that I usually play with and the rest are randoms. Sometimes it's a nice, fun, relaxing environment. Mostly though it's just some guys that want to knock it out as soon as possible.

Well, a bit of a self-plug here, but if you want a clan we'd love to have you. We do things together on a daily basis, we're laid back and friendly. We're on PS4 if you're curious. The clan is young but building up gradually

Ahhhh you had me up until "PS4". I'm on xbox. I find myself moving away from the game anyway. This is the first week I haven't really been excited to raid and it almost feels like a chore now since I have 3 characters, one 319 and two 318's. I just don't even want to go through it over and over again for, what, two light tops? It's getting mundane to me, which is sad, I used to LOVE it.