<This is probably the weirdest place to post this, but it says 'off-topic' so here I go> SO this girl and I have been pretty great friends for like 4 yrs. I always helped her with her BF problems and she helped me with my personal problems. We got pretty close and we always hangout. During May - July 1st of last year (2014) her and I had a thing going, we kissed a lot, cuddled, basically couple-like things. But we weren't really an official couple. But one day, she told me she was scared that if we continued and became an official couple something bad would happened our relationship would be ruined and we wouldn't be able to be friends. I was pretty sad about this but to not sound like a desperate guy, I agreed. Then the rest of summer her and I didn't talk as much as we used too, i could tell things had gotten weird. But luckily one day we hung out and things felt back to normal once more! So we are back to hanging out a lot and messing with one another like old times. So I feel like she is starting to like me again and ended up being right, because one day in November her and I kissed and its been happening through November to December. But now once as I feel as if she and I are finally gonna be something, like an a official couple, some guy shows up and ends up catching her eye, I could tell she like him, but she liked me too, but was scared to screw things up with me, so she ended up going with that guy. Now I'm pretty sad, her and I are still friends,but I still real I like her. Should I stop pursuing her? What should I do?