Hit me up with advice bro! So basically I've gotten to know this girl, and she's super cute and has a great personality. We share a lot of interests and what not, especially music. We both LOVE Coldplay. ^_^ We text and snapchat a lot, and she's shown a lot of interest in me. We can talk about pretty much anything, and conversation almost never feels forced. I'm not overly concerned about texting her everyday (good thing too): I give her space every now and then so I don't text her every day, and I don't really care if she texts back or not. Anyway, the way we became good friends was because we'd both recently gone through some bad relationship stuff. She asked me about mine first, actually, and I reciprocated. It was crazy how similar our situations were, and it was cathartic for both of us being able to talk to the other. She told me that even though we've only known each other for like 3 weeks, that it feels like we've known each other for a long time. I take this as a good sign. Anyway, the guy who hurt her has started texting her again, going on about how he made the wrong decision and that he really likes her, all while talking crap about me behind my back to her. Apparently he said something along the lines of "(my name) only talks to you and is nice to you so he can hit on you." Which is completely untrue. And it's funny, because that's the only reason he talks to her. I've been telling her to just block him on snapchat and not respond to any of his texts, but... She hasn't. I think she might still have feelings for this jerk. She always comes to me with her problems with this guy, so it wouldn't be out of place to ask her if she still had feelings for him. Should I? I'm almost 100% sure she likes me, at least a little. We hug every time we say goodbye, I send her "love ya, night" messages and she responds back with <3, and like I said, she told me she feels like she's known me for a long time. we're also in a musical together this summer (thank God we can both actually sing), and she expressed delight that we both got in. I'm not in the position to date her right now though: should I just be her friend for now?