>When someone suggests I don't have to do anything to continue being small.
>Bees, wasps, hornets, etc.
>CoD
>When a big girl insults my clothing.
>When two friends.. or anyone for that matter, starts to fight
>Fireball whiskey
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That's the thing; it's TOO good. I have no problem drinking it straight or taking shots of it, and because of that, it's very easy for it all to hit me at once. The only night I ever blacked out was due to Fireball whiskey.
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Normally, I get complimented on my sense of style, but every now and again when working or going out and I'm wearing something a bit revealing or tight, I will hear these really big girls make comments like "Where is the rest of her clothing?" or "I would never wear something that short!". When I hear it, I'm just like "lolnope".
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I mean, if you got it, and you feel comfortable, flaunt it. I'm sure those girls are just jealous. Though, here in America, the big girls sometimes wear that kind of clothing, and I'm glad they are confident, but people need to play to their strengths and a tube top and miniskirt just don't work well for a 250 lb woman.
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I think people should be able to wear whatever the hell they want, and everyone has the right to feel confident in their own body. With that said, they can come speak to me when they lose a 100 lbs, rather than insulting clothes they wouldn't be able to get one of their legs through. It does come across as jealously, but it's hard to determine what one would wear if they got the body they desire. If I were 150 lbs or higher, it would be easy for me to say I wouldn't wear anything revealing, when I couldn't really anyways. I have a friend bad for that; making negative comments on small girls wearing anything "skimpy" when she's on the bigger side herself. Even then, she still wears very low cut tops and has stated in the past she loves showing off her cleavage. Is there really a difference? She likes wearing low cut tops because it makes her feel sexy, as revealing, short, or tight clothes makes a smaller girl feel sexy.
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I see your initial point, for sure. People should be able to wear whatever they want, without judgement. It will never happen because of ideals and the way people generally look at beauty (which is heavily influenced by the media) but it would be nice for everyone to feel that confident and not have to worry about being sneered at and/or looked down upon. That aside, I am not a fan of seeing someone's ass crack because they are trying to fit into something 3 sizes too small. I don't know if this is me being judgemental or not, but I also don't like it when people wear slippers and pajamas to the store. I'm not talking like ratty clothes or anything, I mean actual pajamas and slippers. In college it happened alot and it is just pure laziness. It doesn't require much effort to put on a shirt and sweats with some sandals or something. The least I'll do is some sport shorts, t shirt and flip flops. I'm not saying everyone needs to try and look their best 24/7 because I surely don't, but looking like you just rolled out of bed just because you didn't want to get dressed (on a daily basis, I'm aware that there are those days when people just don't feel like it, I have them too) is never a good look.
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由Felicia402编辑: 6/25/2013 10:11:48 PMDon't feel bad. We're all guilty of being judgement when it comes to outer appearance. What matters is how you go about it. If I see someone going around in public still in their PJ's, I assume they're lazy. If I see some bigger girl going around in much smaller clothes, I assume they're in denial, but I don't make an effort to be rude about it. It's their life, their bodies. I've worked hard for mine, so I only think it's right if I want to wear something to show it off.