This is probably a lost cause, but I really would love PVP to be fun again. while I understand your reasons for using SBMM I just think it's the wrong answer. without PVP I have no reason to log into destiny and have no plans to return.
However, I would love to play the game if it was fun again.
There are some metrics that you are using that I do not believe translate as well as you think they do into an enjoyable experience.