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由Lebkazoo编辑：
10/17/2017 2:42:25 AM
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Got cheated on for a year.
>be me
>have girlfriend
>think she's my everything
>eventually we fall out, don't feel the same, etc.
>two weeks after break-up I she tells me she was cheating on me for a year.
I really don't care that we're not in love anymore. I'm just pissed I spent a [b]whole freaking year[/b] thinking this girl was my everything. I gave so much for her, and she didn't care. The least she could have done was tell me there was someone else instead of leaving me in the dark for a year. Would have saved me a lot of emotional trouble.
I legitimately thought she was the one. I thought we could still be good friends after this. But my trust in her has gone down quite a bit.
Frick.
Tl:dr; I got cheated on for a year. Don't care about the love stuff, just pissed I wasted so much time loving someone who cheated on me.
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1 回复由TheArtist编辑： 10/17/2017 1:07:01 PM1. I'm sorry. I know it hurts. 2. You can't con an honest man. The fact that you gave it your all, and she didn't appreciate it doesn't reflect badly on you. It reflects badly on her. Its like the con-man who cheats people by pretending to be a charity and stealing donations. The people who donated aren't fools. The con-man is just a d!ck. 3. Life lesson: Don't make someone else your "everything". You didn't need her before you met her....and you don't need her now that she's gone. ...and you didn't really need her while you were together because she wasn't really "there" for that last year anyway. The point of a relationship is to have someone to SHARE you life and your happiness (and other experiences with). Not to be the SOURCE of your life, happiness, and other experiences. That way you are never dependant upon someone who is always free to walk away from them. Be responsible for your own happiness...and it doesn't matter what she (or any other woman) does. You can welcome them when they want to be a part of your happy life...and can contentedly show them where the door is if they choose to leave. Because---unless you mistreated her----the cheating and the leaving wasnt' about you any way. Its about her and her baggage. 4. She may not have cheated on you. She may just be an even bigger d!ck and is saying it just to hurt you, because she left and you aren't begging her to come back. In a twisted way that hurts some women's pride. They leave, but then are mad that you aren't devastated by it.
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Well you have a couple of options. 1. If it hurts then dont show it unless you're in private. Let it appear like you have forgotten her. Then you'll really forget her. 2. If you want to get revenge then sleep with her friends. I dint recommend this one though.
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1 回复由Aloy, Savior of Meridian编辑： 10/17/2017 10:21:28 PM
Aloy, Savior of MeridianThe outcast-huntress of the 31st Century - 旧
I’m just about to give up on romance all together. Edit: I was just having a bad day. I’ll give Kylie another chance. -
1 回复Look at it this way; You're WAY better off without her. Be glad you found out now rather than after any possible engagement or anything. Use this as a tool when looking into any other potential prospects. You now know more of what too watch for, because there had to be some signs you should be able to recall and put things together. If not, she may just be outright lying about the year of cheating. I mean why do that to anyone?
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1 回复Learn to never become emotionally attached to things, it only makes things worse for you when they are gone.
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4 回复Sorry man, that shit sücks. This is why I'm considering dying alone. I don't want to get married and be betrayed. Waking up every morning knowing I can't trust the person next to me [u]scares[/u] me. [spoiler]unless it's a French woman, they don't cheat as much, in that case everything is better, in short spooky Jedi, PACK YOUR BAGS AND GET YOURSELF A FRENCHIE[/spoiler]
