When you are looking for a wife, you are looking for someone that can put up with you for the rest of your life and someone you can put up with the rest of yours. If your fighting everyday about what you do with your free time just think about what youll be fighting about when there is none and theres a mortgage and bills and daycare and kids and yard work and cooking, cleaning, laundry, repairing your house and cars. You will be fighting all the time. It sounds like your mistaking lust for love. Make sure you keep your priorities straight family always comes first. Happy wife happy life.