I feel ya brother! I; like yourself, struggle with the juggle. I'm the primary parent in the evenings, considering my wife doesn't get home from work until 7pm or so. I keep my Destiny privileges by making sure I over-do family time. After work I pick up the boys (ages 2 & 4), cook them dinner, wash dishes, conduct ABC mouse time, bath them and by then my wife is home and ready to read books to them before bed. When she's finished we hang out and I suffer through Gray's Anatomy or Parenthood until she falls asleep on the couch. That's when I take action and start my creep downstairs. I stay up pretty late, but it doesn't affect me much because my wife is responsible for getting the boys going in the morning. If you're on XBONE look me up GT: AnKh en3rgy. I have a feeling we are on at the same times.