Communicate how you feel. Don't be accusatory or defensive. Use "I feel" statements. Ex: I feel that it is unfair that you get angry with me because I am playing a game when you call me on the phone. I was already playing when you called, and I couldn't pause right away. You should also try compromising, like putting the game down for a minute if you reach a stopping point. The only thing that I find concerning about your problem is the getting upset over not texting back, and having other girls on your friends list. That's controlling behavior that needs to be addressed. If it's under an hour we are talking about with the texts, that's definitely unreasonable. My girlfriend hates that I don't text back right away, but I tell her that [i]I feel[/i] like I shouldn't have to have my phone in my hand all the time, and that not texting does not mean I am ignoring her, or do not like talking to her, or that I'm not thinking about her. I do not [i]feel[/i] the same way about my phone as I do my girlfriend. Those two things are not the same. The whole "I feel" things sounds awkward and cheesy to say all the time, but it's a well accepted and supported conflict resolution method. Try this for a while, and if things don't start to improve in a few weeks (notice I didn't say that things will get completely better in that time), you may have to take a break from the relationship. It doesn't have to be a permanent one, though breaks often end that way. You have to be willing to make changes, too, you can't just expect her to change without making some sacrifices yourself. It has to go both ways where it can.