I only use lfg on discord then the one in the game. The amount of times I done the game lfg, I've gotten many that players just leave after one mistake or wipe. It feels like they want to rush all the time but my buddy and i are OK with just completing the gamemode. I myself will sometimes run meta builds but I tend to tweak them to my liking. My buddy hates meta builds. When players see it they ask him to use whatever meta build there is and if he doesn't they leave. But on the discord, most of the time they say as long he brings the numbers and keeps the ads down he all good.