Humans have a thing called "negativity bias," we focus on the negative and worry over it, it's a survival mechanism from ye olden days of cave dwelling. We all experience it, and throw a heaping helping of confirmation bias on top of that (everyone loves to hear their own opinions repeated back to them) and you've got a stew. That said, forums are also where people vent their frustrations, and it's kind of normal that people who are unhappy would be coming here to express those frustrations. The people who enjoy playing the game aren't worried about forums, they're playing the game and having a good time. So in addition to negativity bias and confirmation bias, we've also got selection bias. The negativity gets me down a lot of the time, too, for what it's worth. You're not alone in your frustrations. The solution, sadly, is to use the forums less; these are yet another form of social media, and we all know what social media does to our brains. If you're having fun, keep having fun, don't let the forums get you down.