I think it really depends for me most of the time though its helping a friend, and possibly doing dumb custome matches (Sometimes Randomizers with bad roll weapons)

Yeah you sound like you are in control though , a lot of people are unable to manage their time then blame the game . It’s just a video game and it’s destiny which is a sh%t fest across the board 🤷🏼‍♂️

I only play control due to bounties after that I'll switch it up to either custom or what ever seasonal it is but when it comes down to control (Or Iron Banner since it will replace it) people treat it like Trials or even CoD matches which after years it gets old.