It seems like every time the topic of having kids comes up, im the only one who doesn't want to have any. When I tell people this, they usually have a strong reaction to my decision. They act like what I just said was an awful thing, and they're like "well why not?" What do you guys think? Is it really wrong for someone to not want to have babies?
Edit: Im amazed at how overwhelmingly supportive everyone is (although there have been a few trolls). Keep giving your opinions about this topic (favorable or unfavorable) because I think it's a relevant cultural issue that isn't discussed very often. Thanks everyone.
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Not at all There's a good chance any kid could be a -blam!-up so why take that risk
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No. I don't want kids either. There are too many things I want to do and places I want to go, and that requires money. And if I have kids, then I won't be able to do that. I'll be working the rest of my life to keep other tiny human beings alive. No thanks! I'd rather be selfish and live my own life. (I'll prob go to a sperm bank a few times just to make sure my DNA gets passed on)
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No. You'd be selfish to have them if you're having these kinds of doubts.
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No. I don't want to have kids but I don't want to miss out on having the experience of having a kid before I die. So I'm going to have a kid, if that makes any sense lol.
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Your fine mate your not going to hell or someplace like that
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I adore children. I'd be happy as can be if my wife told me she was pregnant. But, I enjoy having nice things more. Not to say that you can't have both, but we aren't in that place right now. Hopefully in the future.
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1 RespuestaPerson? No. But on an evolutionary level, you're a failure as a creature.
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1 RespuestaThere's nothing wrong with that, but you technically forfeit the evolutionary game.
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Yes you are. The point of life is to have a family and pass on your genes.
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Just live how you want to live don't let anyone tell you different.
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3 RespuestasI hate all my children
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1 RespuestaI never wanted a child which is perfect as i'm sterile and unable to get pregnant anyway due to "hardware difficulties"
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I see nothing wrong with choosing not to have kids . I've never wanted any myself and have no desire ever to start lol
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Maybe cause when they grow up u know they will flush ur exotics down the toilet lol
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3 RespuestasJust do what your parents did and decide to never have kids—ever.
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4 RespuestasI can't so its sad when those that can wont but that is fine its just sad I guess but hey i will adopt to help kids that were not wanted so in a way me not being able to helps those kids. Do what you want hun:)
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Nope you're actually a good person for realizing that before you had kids.
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It's incredibly important to self-reflective on this topic. Most people can instinctively know and I believe a lot of people ignore their inner voice to the detriment of the children. I don't want kids. Maybe another five years may change my mind? But I doubt it. I'm an educator. I get enough youth adolescence in my life lol
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1 RespuestaEditado por ChampionJune: 2/3/2015 9:37:53 PMNah. I've thought about it about it but i don't really want one. Maybe one, some day. Up to my future wife. Might even adopt. Kids out there who need a home. [spoiler]former foster child[/spoiler]
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1 RespuestaNo, in fact I'm still a tad aggravated my parents decided to concieve me.
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2 RespuestasAs a individual no you can choose to do whatever you want. But as a human yes if you choose to not have children you are putting the entire species at risk
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1 RespuestaIt's much more responsible to not have kids than bring them into the world when you can't afford them.
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