The key here is proximity. You’re accusing me of believing my loss to be significant above anybody else’s. I said before I pity their fate, and the suffering of their families. I sympathize very well with grief, and had I known them or their families I would be devastated. But I don’t. I am a completely neutral party to this entire event, and from the perspective of an onlooker, am I morally obligated to feel remorse? I feel sadness for victims of tragedies. Like those that died on the titanic. Hoards of rich people and their families boarded this assuredly unsinkable ship with absolutely no reason to doubt their safety. There was no clear and distinct warning signs to tell them not to board. I can’t waste energy feeling sad for people that take risks at the expense of their lives. I hate seeing people ride motorcycles on the freeway, or smoke themselves to death, but even those choices are less reckless than the choice to board this submarine. I’ve been surrounded by death all my life, and all too often it has happened at the fault of the dead. It leaves you with a sense of bitterness, watching their families grieve over a loss so avoidable. I can’t be bothered to care about these men and their choices. Their families loss is tragic. Don’t accuse me of apathy, or selfishness in grieving. I am not the self-absorbed dimensionless personification of human indifference that you see to think I am. I am moved by the loss of human life, but not reckless self-destruction. I could get into a far more detailed discussion of my moral standings on human life, but disgustingly, that’s considered a political discussion. You can flaunt your moral high ground, but you don’t actually care either. People die every day, in far more tragic ways. Are you personally grieving all loss of human life? I respect the dead, and the choices they make.

Thanks for the advice

I don't really care either just had to share my thoughts. [spoiler]dangerous, i know[/spoiler]