I feel like a -blam!- mistake. How do I fit in the world.
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You are normal, the rest of us are the weird ones 🍻
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1 RespuestaOkay where do I start? Let’s start here. Fitting into the world is a horrible mistake. There is nothing normal in any way on this earth. I can tell you though, being different is great because each human was created to be unique. If your different, don’t look at it as a bad thing. I am a “different” person, and my life is incredible. According to what I believe, I am not to be apart of the world, meaning if I get attached to worldly things such as money, then it could ruin my life, and my relationship with my creator. Also a one big thing to consider, and that’s being content. The most content people I have met have dirt for floors, and tarps for their roof. Think about what you have. Food on the table, a roof over your head. Don’t look at the dark side of things. Look at the bright side.
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1 RespuestaI smell good
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5 RespuestasNobody is a mistake, normal is relative, everyone serves a purpose. I don't conform to what other people want, I lead myself and do my own thing, I am the master of my own fate. Imagine your life as a movie that you create, anything can happen and ultimately you control the outcome. Find something you like doing and be yourself, you don't have to be someone else...
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1 RespuestaI get that. There's a feeling of alienation that a lot of people experience, and just take comfort in knowing that someone out there understands. Whenever you seem angry enough to crack, or melancholy enough to shatter, remember you're not alone. I don't recommend ever trying to fit in. It doesn't work, and the moment you try to fit in you dehumanize yourself. Depending on your religious opinions, you're either conceived or created to be different, why would you want to change that? What I do recommend is whenever you get to the breaking point, lay down, clear your head, maybe cry a little or vent your anger in another (non-violent/destructive) way, and get back up. The show goes on. It has to.
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7 RespuestasAccept yourself as you are and make a change. That's all you can do.
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I don't know, I just got here a few centuries ago
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1 RespuestaYou’re asking the wrong question; you should be asking, “how do I feel comfortable with who I am” and once I figure that out I’ll get back to ya 👍
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12 RespuestasFeign confidence until you build some. Talk to a lot of people, ask a lot of questions. Put effort into styling yourself in a way you like. Step out of your comfort zone every chance you can. Indulge in hobbies you don’t think you’ll be any good at. Greet people you wouldn’t normally greet, smile at people you’ve never even met. Become a real presence in the world rather than a reluctant passenger.
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You don’t! We are all not normal in this time of the world!
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Check your PMs
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post an deranged diatribe about censorship, that oughta do it /S
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3 RespuestasEditado por Cultmeister: 3/8/2023 6:24:30 AMAs a disabled gay who did a degree in philosophy, fitting in is dumb. [url=https://youtu.be/_sQGwDeambg]EmBrAce yOuR DeSTinY[/url]
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Editado por Breaking_08: 3/10/2023 4:39:46 PMFake it till you make it is the way in these situations. Also, talk to someone you know or like a therapist or something. I’m not gonna say this is the wrong place to talk about this, but it’s not the best one.
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Don’t be autistic.
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Which part of the world looks normal to you?
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Anyone can be normal. Normal is boring. Being unique is where it's at. That becomes more evident as you get older. I was super shy when I was young. Now I'm reserved and thoughtful, which is why I don't talk a lot or interact with a lot of people. I do what I want, because I'm a unique individual.