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Gaslighting at its finest.
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  • Please explain in depth. Are you mad because I said everyone has a right to food, shelter, water and medical aid, or are you mad that I said that people who find serial killer documentaries and biopics entertaining are repulsive? Even though I never said that I find people who WATCH them repulsive, only that those who find them ENTERTAINING are? Meaning, if you enjoy watching Ted Bundy brutally murder someone, then yes, you are repulsive? Do I find you repulsive for watching them for educational purposes? No, and I never stated such. So please tell me, how am I gaslighting?

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  • You come here. Insult people, then get mad when people don't take too kindly to it. And you call everyone here toxic bullies. That is gaslighting.

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  • I don't think it's called gaslighting, but something else

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  • Gas lightingception.

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  • Never going on these off topic forums again

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  • You can never leave. The moment you clicked on here, your soul was eternally bound.

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  • No. I called people who find watching real life serial killers brutally murder someone entertaining repulsive. I only insulted people who find serial killers entertaining. How in the world is that wrong? Do you not believe that the people who get the names and faces of serial killers tattooed on their bodies disgusting? Or are you talking about other posts where I’ve called out people for blatant racism? Or calling out people for blatant (h)(o)(m)(o)(p)(h)(o)(b)(i)(a)? Cause even then, I didn’t insult them, simply called them out and blocked and reported. As for gaslighting, I know what it is. I know what it is because it happened to me on these very forums. It nearly destroyed me. I was suicidal from it. I would never gaslight anyone SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED TO ME, because it honestly can destroy you. And I believe gaslighting has absolutely lost its meaning, due to the term being overused and misused.

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  • That is not quite true. Everytime someone disagreed with you, you got upset, insulted, and started being toxic. I'll give you a couple peices of free advice. 1. Just because someone disagrees with you, doesn't make them evil. 2. Try to see it from the other side and practice some empathy. 3. Don't hold your beliefs so personally that you feel attacked whenever someone disagrees with you on a topic. 4. Don't take the internet too seriously and have a bit of a thicker skin. If you can't do that, get off the internet and especially forums of people that may disagree with you. 5. While I fail at this from time to time, whenever someone starts to insult you first, it is rarely a good idea to insult back and will get worse. 6. Practice civil discourse in more controlled environments, join a debate club, that may help.

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  • See, you know what you're talking about. This guy just can't take a joke or criticism. He's a Stiff.

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  • While the chances are low, hopefully he grows from this and learns to let go of some of his pride. Can't say I blame him too much though. Pride is quite the evasive devil.

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  • Very true.

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  • I just looked through both posts. Not a single insult towards anyone. You are incorrect. I DID get upset when I saw that so many people don’t believe that everyone has the right to food, water, shelter and medicare. But I never insulted anyone, or got toxic, so now you’re gaslighting me.

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  • Can you actually give me examples of how I was toxic? How I insulted anyone? Or is everyone just going to say “You were toxic” and not give ANY example of how.

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  • [quote]Can you actually give me examples of how I was toxic? How I insulted anyone? Or is everyone just going to say “You were toxic” and not give ANY example of how.[/quote] Fine. In your food post. Someone that has the name of a character in D2 that roasted Ghaul was respectfully disagreeing, you assumed the worst of him *oh you think that it is ok for X to happen?* when that clearly wasn't the case and he even said so. You then said you would report him for the mere crime of responding to your replies. As for the documentary post, documentaries are meant to be entertaining and informative, but to not glorify the serial killer. And for all of the people who dislike the serial killer, and find the documentary entertaining, you called them repulsive. You have also insulted, mocked, and belittled me several times in our dms. You can go check, they haven't disappeared.

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  • And as for talking to Speaker, how was that toxic? I stated I was done with the conversation(and this was before he stated that he wasn’t on with x (as you put it) so how the fk would I know? And he continued to reply to my posts which I felt was harassment, and even told him as such.

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  • Harrassment is more constant and sustained. He replied, you replied to him, and it went back and forth. You then told him you were done and threatened the report if he keeps responding despite no harrassment happening from anything I saw. That was a little bit toxic.

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  • And maybe you’re right. I also sent you a lengthy post apologizing for the dms, I am truly sorry, and you’re right, I did insult you, and I never should have gone so far as to insinuate that you are a bigot. I would hate it if someone did that to me, so it’s only fair that I give others the same treatment.

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  • I got it and responded to it. I wish you the best in your future endeavors.

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  • This is pointless, and going absolutely no where. I never insulted you on our dms, nor did I belittle or mock you. If I hurt your feelings at any point, I’m truly sorry, that was never my intention. But I’m fkn done with thes conversations, because they are going nowhere. Neither of us are EVER going to come to any sort of agreement and I’m done trying.

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  • That's not quite true. It did happen, while you might not see them as insults, they were. Specifically, bigot and the other ones that are censored around here. And do not worry about my feelings. I've had much worse thrown at me. I wish you good health, mental, spiritual, and physical. A good life. And the wisdom of scholars.

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  • I just sent a new post.

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  • Calling people [i]-blam!-[/i]phobic, calling them racist, and repulsive. Oh yeah, nothing wrong with that. Not insulting at all.

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  • And again, ONLY PEOPLE WHO FIND SERIAL KILLERS MURDERING PEOPLE ENTERTAINING REPULSIVE. It’s what I said from the beginning, and have CONTINUED to reiterate SEVERAL times, to SEVERAL people, and constantly reiterating that I am NOT talking about people who simply watch them, but people who find them ENTERTAINING. Would you find a live streamed murder entertaining? No? Then you shouldn’t find an actor playing Ted Bundy killing someone entertaining. People act as if I said “If you watch this, then you are a scum.” But I didn’t. It was clear from the start. If you find them ENTERTAINING, you are repulsive. If you watch them, I don’t give two 💩. But if you enjoy watching innocent people being murdered, then yes, you are a horrible person. But no one seems to listen to me, so what’s the fkn point anymore.

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  • Yeah, uh, no one finds the killing entertaining. It's the story. The story of how he or she turned into a twisted evil human. That's what gets people into watching it. We aren't all "yesss! Blood and guts! Get him Bundy!", people despise the villain. The show isn't to glorify the murderer, but to be informational and entertaining. I don't know why it won't get into your head that we don't enjoy the murder, we simply enjoy the plot.

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  • I understand that. I understand that some people did take it the wrong way. But there is a significant portion of people who watch a documentary, find it entertaining and still dislike the killer. I have seen a lot of bad stuff as a documentary, but the killers are not really glorified, and they shouldn't be.

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