[i]Apparently[/i] I need to specify. If you have neither or only one of the choices then just [b]imagine[/b] you have both. Who would/do you love the most? If it came down to it and you had to choose. And don't say 'Oh, I love them both equally.' We both know it's bullshit and you are a liar. You may not be able to decide, but you have a favorite. I know it's hard to compare these different kinds of love and put one above another but it's just something I have always wondered. My answer: [spoiler]I would love my significant other more simply because I loved them first and the child is a product of that love. I would give up anything for my significant other. They are the one love of my life and I wouldn't lose that for the world. Even if it meant giving my child up.[/spoiler]