[i]Apparently[/i] I need to specify. If you have neither or only one of the choices then just [b]imagine[/b] you have both.
Who would/do you love the most? If it came down to it and you had to choose. And don't say 'Oh, I love them both equally.' We both know it's bullshit and you are a liar. You may not be able to decide, but you have a favorite.
I know it's hard to compare these different kinds of love and put one above another but it's just something I have always wondered.
My answer:
[spoiler]I would love my significant other more simply because I loved them first and the child is a product of that love. I would give up anything for my significant other. They are the one love of my life and I wouldn't lose that for the world. Even if it meant giving my child up.[/spoiler]
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#Offtopic
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1 RespuestaWhat about people who adopted their child or your significant other is not the father/mother
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For the most part I hate kids. I did however get one woman who had a really cool one that I actually started to like more than her. It sucked when we broke up
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Child. Hands down.
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1 RespuestaEditado por Salohcin J: 5/4/2016 4:06:40 AMHow do I choose? Save the person that doesn't exist or save the person that doesn't exist?
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1 RespuestaI don't have a significant other or a child so I AM FREE!
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Just her. It's not like she'd want to have a child rn, much less with me, anyway.
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No child yet, so I win the poll
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Idk about favorite but ik I can make more children if I stay with my wife. It would hurt like hell and I'm always worried about losing my kids.
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2 RespuestasMy -blam!-ing kid. It's my legacy, my significant other will die, but the kid will live longer and he will have a significant other. He will need to know to love and be loved
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It's a horrible thing to play favorites with family
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1 RespuestaEditado por JFK, Victim of the IX: 5/4/2016 2:41:40 AM[quote]We both know it's bullshit and you're a liar. [/quote]
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3 RespuestasSee this is why I would prefer not to have kids (unless my future significant other wants to and it would make her happy). If you put a child into play, then you're going to focus more on the child rather than your significant other. When you have a child, you lose a special intimacy between you and your partner. TL;DR: Basically, if you have a child, your world becomes "what's best for the baby" not "what's best for my one and only soulmate", which I would rather focus the love I can give to my soulmate (too bad I haven't met her yet probably :(
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While I would agree with you, most of off-topic is biased. They don't have kids (neither do I) so it's not as easy to imagine losing them.
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Well I hate children so
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I believe that a child is the best thing to come out of a relationship.
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2 RespuestasMy significant other. Because I'm not the type to just be in a relationship lightly. I would only be with someone i really love and i would be incomplete without her. Hard choice, but my significant other.
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1 RespuestaMy child since he will have the rinnegan.
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3 RespuestasI love both equally. There is none greater than the other. But if it came to sacrificing myself and/or my wife for their well being, my children come first.