Raising children is all about trying to place your views or values on them and hope that you've done a good job so they know wright from wrong. It's called raising for a reason. When you're 30 you'll look back and realize you were still a child at 25. That's why you don't understand the concept of my son is my son. No one can teach him better than me and or protect him better than me. Not meaning to sound like I'm calling you a child but you're not quite an adult yet either. In my eyes the only thing at that age that could make me see you as an adult is if you have served in the military or all ready married and raising a family.