If she wants to work things out then go for it, just don't keep pursuing her if she clearly isn't going to take you back.

Tell me about the girl you mentioned in this post, what's your story?

I had a crush on her freshman year (I'm a senior now) but I never talked to her because I thought she was out of my league. Last year, I was in the hospital and I saw her there. We really bonded but she had to go to residential in another state for 6 months-1 year. I spent all 10 months that she was gone thinking about her and wishing I could be with her. When she was released, she contacted me and she felt the same way. But she had moved to another state and didn't want to do long distance. She said she loved me, and I loved her too so we were planning on eventually getting together (she'd visit and we were possibly going to go to college together). We talked for the last month and I thought things were going fine, but she suddenly told me last night that she wasn't happy and couldn't see us ever being able to be together (apparently she felt this way for a while but hadn't told me because she thought I might hurt myself). She said we should stop talking, period. I was shocked and I begged her to get on Skype and just tell me how she felt and then let me say goodbye but she wouldn't. She just did it through a few texts, removed me from Facebook and then it was done. Worst part is that I thought she had just been getting ice cream with a guy friend yesterday, but I found later (from a Facebook post of hers) that it was a date so I bet she is going to start dating that guy and she threw me to the curb for him. I worried about something like that happening (not wanting to do long distance was kind of a red flag, because I figured it was to keep her options open) but I thought she was better than that. She was my friend, and she dumped me like it was nothing. I wish I had never even met her now, or at least avoided telling her that I liked her.

That sounds like it hurts, how do you feel about her now?

Truthfully, I still care about her and I really want to talk to her and go back to how things were. But I don't know if I can trust her, and she clearly doesn't want to be associated with me anymore, so why waste my time? She isn't worth it. She doesn't feel the same way. It would be best just to cut my losses and find someone else.

My friends and family say she is using me for a plan B, try it before you buy it scenario. They say she wants me to stil be in love in case she drops out of school or can't find anyone else. I honestly want to be there if things fall through with her.