Okay don't think I'm some stupid feminist extremist or something crazy, I've just realized that some guys can be complete d*cks when they find out you're a girl and are joining their game. Not most, but some. Most of the games I join are great, but sometimes there's just that one guy that is constantly being a d*uche. If you're that d*uche, this is for you. What NOT to do when a girl joins your game: 1) accuse them of being the reason your team will lose. 2) completely ignore them when they suggest a different technique for the boss, crucible, etc. even if it's better. 3) kick them after their first death even after everyone else has died several times. 4) blame them for the lag, even though everyone's red-barring. 5) ask them for nudes. 6) constantly talk sh*t about their boyfriend when he's not in the party. 7) assume they have no idea what they're doing. What TO do when a girl joins your game: 1) "hey what's up, hard raid? Alright cool sent you an invite, so anyways back to what I was saying..." Edit: this is my second account. Swedishmeow is my first. I am an experience d player, I do know what I'm doing. The problem I have is not when people say "you died you can't play with us" it's when they say "you're a girl you can't play with us". The people I'm referring to don't care about stats, as far as they see it if you're a girl you suck no matter what. Anyways, I'm done with this post now, seeing as many people posting are just ignorant. Off to play destiny. Later