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Editado por Mangojoyride:
1/19/2016 6:26:51 AM
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Are Women Not Allowed To Play Trials?
Sooo earlier I was in LFG looking for a group to get at least 7 wins in trials. I created a party and invited people, someone joined so I proceeded to greet them just so they would leave the party immediately after I spoke and it happened several times. Then I would join chats and simply say hi and BOOM I was getting kicked out.
My reasoning was that maybe they got a friend chat invite or people already had a 3rd before I joined. The answer was simple after I stayed in orbit wondering what the hell was wrong, these monkey brains knocked me strait out because they heard I am a woman!!! Like seriously what makes them think I cant hold my ground? Does the mic make me sound like a kid? Were their experiences with female gamers that bad I dont deserve a chance?
Time was against me so I changed tactics, bitch mode activated so in the description I wrote something among the lines of bad ass kick out girl looking for a group.....I wanted to kill the screen when I was getting lots of invites and messages it was embarrassing, thank goodness I got 2 normal people to play with.
I guess this must be why girls like to stay quiet, being afraid of being mocked or kick out of fireteams. I had to purposely put that I am female so at least people knew what to expect when they talk to me and hopefully stay.
Edit 1: im 21, my voice is not squeaky but I guess mic must not helping me portray that since my voice is not deep at all.
Its so dumb, how can I fix this issue?
Edit 2: A few things clear. This account belongs to my fiancé, destiny is my first person shooting game so im still not top dog. Judge me only on the hunter since that is the only character I play.
I play lots of pvp on the vita because im a masochist so I don't care about my K/D.
I have a good clan that has good people but they were offline or busy when I had time to play. I have been ignoring destiny since Disgaea 5 came out so yeah im rusty.
I can hold my own waaay better than before, got some wrecking ball recently so I feel good about that. Thanks for all the very kind replies, I would add most of you but my fiancé will delete so many random people he doesnt know since we like our clan lol.
Edit 3: Hellooo from the other siiiiide.
[b]To the salty people that have posted here I could care more about two poops than your negativity.[/b]
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4 RespuestasI play with a bunch of girls, I'm not gonna drool over the fact they or of opposite gender, I certainly wouldn't kick any female out because of her sex xD out of the people I typically raid and play with 3 are girls and 2 of the three of them are far better then me and destiny is all I play xD
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Editado por LordFarquaad770: 11/20/2015 5:03:55 AMAll i can say is gl. But don't expect many to be kind on here. Edit 1: spelling
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It's because you need to prove to the boys that you can flex your donger as well (or even better) as they can ᕙ༼◕ل͜◕༽ᕗ
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2 RespuestasYour a woman and your stats suck. LOOSE LOOSE
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2 RespuestasI wouldn't play trials with you, but not cause you're a woman. I wouldn't play with you cause ur posting looking for 7 wins... Wtf wouldn't you try for flawless??
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So a small minority of ass holes refuse to play with you because of your gender and you think this is women, as a hole, being banned from a game type. Are you drunk?
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1 RespuestaEven if you sounded like a squeaker leaving immediately upon joining is simply ridiculous, and just plain rude. Sure some squeakers are little bitches, ain't no doubt bout that, but that doesn't mean they can't hold their own. Disagea is fun stuff tho~
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Editado por IcyIcicles: 11/20/2015 4:32:30 AMThis one person a while ago said he had a handicap that made his voice sound young. Said he was 28 or something. Well, two things gave away that he was lying. First, he just wouldnt stop talking about random things that showed no cohesiveness. Second, in the background, I heard "____ you got to do your homework." Kid responds, "But mom-" mic goes mute. Thing is I dont mind the voice, but why lie about it. If people discriminate you based on voice, then theyre not worth playing with anyhow.
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2 RespuestasNow I have a hankering for a mango.
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2 RespuestasEditado por ghostRNGR1: 11/20/2015 2:47:20 AMI understand maybe why female gamers feel this way. However you shouldn't just go out and rant on the destiny forums. Also, don't be an attention grabber. There are A LOT of nice people out there so even if you have one bad trials experience does not mean you have to get on and rant. I agree tho about letting the fireteam know you are girl so they know what to expect
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5 RespuestasEditado por Exquisive: 10/20/2021 4:36:48 PM
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2 RespuestasHonestly, I don't care about the gender of the individual I'm playing with. All I ask whenever I make a post is CHILL adults, or at least mature players. I can't stand the younger crowd that behave innapropriately, and decide that it's ok to yell and swear at others. Other than that, I'm an extremely nice player, I have lots of patience and always willing to help, and absolutely stay away from that "try-hard elitist" mentality of giving orders to others and becoming disappointed if something was done wrong. The toxicity of other players is awful, and truly detracts from the Destiny experience. If you'd like to add me, I have no issue with that. This goes for all other like minded individuals who are mature, and respecting of others. I am a university student, and generally envoy playing with people in that age group, or older :D Sorry for the infamous wall of text to whoever reads this :/
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1 RespuestaI've only played with a girl once or twice. Only thought that has ever gone through my head is, "Is that a girl? Or just a really high pitched dude..that's definitely a girl. Huh. Oh she's got a good load out to run sword. I wonder where she got her Don't Touch Me's. Hmmm. Why did they make the pauldron glitter blue? If looks like a bass boat. When was the last time I went fishing? Geez I'm hungry, oh crap we started."
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1 RespuestaNobody should disrespect the Mango.
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I'm down for trials whenever. Usually go flawless easily
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2 RespuestasYou know, guys shouldn't underestimate women. Some of the world's strongest people are women and some are even top tier snipers on the battleground. We are all people, not split into genders. I hate people who are sexist and honestly if they think that, theyre going to die alone
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3 RespuestasEditado por I Have 2 Mums: 11/20/2015 3:05:08 AMJust throwing this out there (thirsty As -blam!-) but we should date or any other takers? 'Waiting for everyone to get salty'
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People are jerks, sorry about that. It's a messed up situation. :I
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Add me if you're on ps4
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Lol wow it's sad to see people are still ignorant in this way sorry to hear about your experience fam
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Who cares? People can be assholes. Grow up.
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I did trials with a girl and she was one of the best players I have ever played with, snipes around ever corner. So no complaints from me if your from the opposite sex.
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5 RespuestasGirls will pull the victim card all the time People are jerks, get over it
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Maybe they were too scared to talk to a women they have never had real life experience with that.
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Easy solution join or make a clan that doesn't have thirsty teens or sexist men instead of using lfg
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3 RespuestasCan you shoot? Can you kill things? Do you die every 5 seconds? Last alive, can you hold your ground? These are the questions that need to be asked. These are the questions I ask. You answer all these an I feel you're good and can stand your ground then I don't care if you're a woman or man. You get shit done then you found yourself a squad.
