Many of you probably just want to have sex with the girl and move on. However, for those of you who want to know the secret to maintaining a loving relationship, read this:[spoiler]http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8115_prob.html[/spoiler]
It's a lot to read, but well worth it. At least read some of it, or save the link and read it at a later time. Although this article is directed toward married couples, it certainly applies otherwise.
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None they are all whores
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Edited by PyroPanda23: 9/29/2014 9:54:38 AMRemember. " happy wife, happy life" lol. Sadly relationships don't seem to last with me. But my new girlfriend just might be worth it.
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I can say from my own past experiences, including dating, marriage, divorce and moving on afterwards, that the lessons I have learned first hand is honesty/trust, communication, and attentiveness to both their emotional and physical needs, with more emphases on emotional needs are key factors to keeping your woman happy. Honesty and trust plays a huge role. With so many young women growing up these days in broken homes with out a father figure around, who left or never stayed around long enough to show these young ladies any kid of love or guidance from a father to daughter, it's hard for a lot of women to trust men to begin with. SO why would she just trust some guy she just met? After all the most important man in her life left and abandoned her when she was very young, in her mind, every man will do the same. Establishing this trust is very important to women, and not just those who grew up fatherless. It's a sacred bond, that can not EVER be broken. Something you have to do right from the start is not lie. Even the smallest little lie could have a bigger impact then you may think. And believe me, woman keep in their mind a catalog of everything you say and do! That's why particularly when you are arguing they tend bring up things you said or done from years ago. Build up trust and you'll set the foundation for your relationship, which leads to the next thing: Communication. We all know women like to talk, ok, it's a fact they [i]love[/i] to talk. Talk about any and everything under the sun. What they did and, how they felt about doing it, who they saw and what they think about that person, what they were wearing, how they liked or disliked what that person was wearing, what they said to that person, " Oh nice shoes" what they really thought when they said that "Yeah nice shoes for getting them at a flea market" on and on and on, and that's about just one person who they seen at the supermarket. Sound familiar?? When women talk, they are expressing themselves, opening up and, revealing themselves and most important sharing their feelings to you. It may seem like a bunch of nonsense to men, but to them it's important, so it's important for us to listen. And not just listen, but to understand and connect. Because later on she's gonna throw you a pop quiz and you better be prepared, like "Hey babe, remember that lady I ran into the other day at the supermarket?" If you say IDK, don't remember or I guess, guess what you failed!! You better have that right answer like, "Oh yeah, I remember. The one you said with the flea market looking shoes" Something as small as that shows her you were listening, not only that, but it shows you care and your attention was solely on her. And guess what that does? It makes her feel good. Makes her feel good about you. But I'm going to stop here. I don't want to keep going on but I could!! I just don't want to waste my time doing so. However if this gets some likes and good feed back I'll keep going.
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Just do everything you can to make her happy. Be spontaneous, cute, share your emotions, and compliment her on the simple things. Of course there's more but those are a few of the main points.
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Edited by Inzombiak: 12/17/2014 3:45:06 PMTL;DR: Get within 6 inches of your SO face and yell "up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, Start." The smile on your SO face will confirm that you've unlocked "Loving Relationship" code.
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How old are you?
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The irony where your username matches up with the thread is fantastic.
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Toast/envolope is all i will need
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lol relationships
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Just use the shocker treatment [spoiler]two in the pink one in the stink[/spoiler]
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I won't ever get in a relationship because of who I am. It just wouldn't work out.
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Edited by Shadlezz: 9/29/2014 1:45:07 PM[quote] 1) "You are not meeting my emotional needs," or 2) "Your behavior is upsetting me." The first category reflects a failure to make your spouse happy, and the second category reflects a failure to avoid making your spouse unhappy. [/quote] Aren't both of these the same thing?
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OP living up to his name. Gg will read
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[quote]Many of you probably just want to have sex with the girl and move on.[/quote] Nope [spoiler]Link doesn't work fyi :p[/spoiler]
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Most people do want a serious relationship, it it really that bad in the US where its bang and split? (Any any other similar and actual saying similar to this)
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Been with my wife now for 16 years. I did not read the article but the real keys I use are love and comprise. If you have both of those then you will be together forever.