[quote] 1) "You are not meeting my emotional needs," or
2) "Your behavior is upsetting me."
The first category reflects a failure to make your spouse happy, and the second category reflects a failure to avoid making your spouse unhappy.
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Aren't both of these the same thing?
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No. An example of the first would be if I were upset and wanted to talk with my girl, but she didn't want to. An example of the second would be if she were to regularly ignore my calls.