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There is nothing wrong with politely declining. Hell even clique techniques are better than being ignored. I heard a few years back that being ignored can stimulate the same part of the brain as physical pain. Being put in an awkward position is NOT a valid excuse.
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You nailed it. I'm not upset about the rejection. I expected it to be perfectly honest. It's the fact that she hasn't even put it in words that hurts.
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It kind of is. This is one of the reasons that Facebook is a bad way to say these things
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Even though we obviously know each other, I would think the anonymity of online communication would help her to reply.
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It makes it awkward and doesn't invite a response. By phone would have been better
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Explain to me how physical pain (however mental it is) is justified through being put in an awkward position. I'm sure the CIA involved with torturing terrorists would just love to know
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I'm not saying I want her hurt physically, I am not that bitter. I'm just saying that I put her in an awkward position. And through no fault but my own, I should expect the pain of being ignored. Basically, I regret what I did, both to her and what in turn happened to me.
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I was saying that her ignoring you was causing you physical pain. Not the other way around
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Yes, her not saying "no" is tantamount to torture. Stop before it's too late.
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Edited by Shortbusregular: 12/21/2014 3:56:20 AMYou make it seem so black and white. All she has to say is "I have a boyfriend" and the problem is over. Edit: here's one of many articles
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You get this is significant ignorance, not just someone not responding to a Facebook message?
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If you're still going on about CIA thing it was a joke (as if that wasn't obvious).
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I was referring to your link m8
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Edited by Shortbusregular: 12/21/2014 4:05:46 AMAnyways moving to your point, it wasn't just some "Facebook message", it was a confession of love (if I'm allowed to consider it that much). I don't know what you think love or even attraction is, but I'm pretty sure if you got ignored when you confessed it would feel a lot worse than someone not passing you the ball in a hot potato game.
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Should've picked a better means of communication.
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It's really too bad you have no sense of empathy
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No, not really. He messed up, he has to deal with the consequences.
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Thanks for proving my point
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Ok I don't want you guys arguing anymore. I BLAMed up big time. The only way this is getting fixed is if I get a time machine and just never send the message in the first place. So I admit it, I put both her and I in a bad place and I feel terrible about it. I really care about her, love or not. I'm only 19; I obviously don't know what love is. http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=raNGeq3_DtM The only thing I can do now is let this pass and learn from my many, many, many mistakes.
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Dude me and overlord argue all the time. It's kinda our thing. Its what we're known for
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m8 it really isn't that big a deal.
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It sounds like you guys are at each other's throats over my mistakes.
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It's a normal thing, carry on with your business.
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Ayyyy
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