My experience says that feminists usually get their panties in a wad over the littlest things. For example, waay back in 8th grade, some people in my class started talking about oppressed women and "why couldn't Jesus had been a girl?" Whenever I gave the logical answer "If Jesus had been a girl, as soon as she started preaching, she would have been stoned to death." And every girl and white knight turned on me. Lucky the teacher was able to see the truth in that. People seem to forget the golden rule; treat others as you would want to be treated. Don't preach to others about how they should act just because someone preached to you how you should act. You're just asking for a rebuttal in kind. Just go "meh, it's my life and I can live with the criticism" and brush it off. And before people start going on here and saying "you aren't a girl, so you can't know what it's like" I will tell you I am deaf. Even more, I am deaf with a cochlear implant. I get flak from both hearing and other deaf people. And I can live with it.