Don't care either way. If I want to put myself in that characters shoes I normally create a male character ( like in ME), if I want to get a different point of view I create a female character, and usually I find most people friendlier and more willing to party up and do mission or a quest. Definitely don't need to worry about gear that much. So for a more social experience I definitely prefer making a female character. Because playing games with strangers is more laid back and enjoyable.