This question is for those who view sex as being both pure lust and pure love (situational). If you're making love to someone whom you cherish and adore, becoming one flesh with them, how special should they feel and how much meaning can there be when you have performed the same act with so many others whom you had little to absolutely no feelings for? How is it that the act of sex, in terms of love, is not devalued when you give your body to so many others? Is not love reserved? So why do you not reserve your body from which you express your love? I'm not necessarily saying that anybody is wrong, I'm just curious about the reasoning.