I know the pain of an Alcoholic parent.
My piece of shit mother used to drink herself blind every day and scream abuse at me and my brothers. She'd pass out around about 4-5pm leaving me to look after 3 younger brothers, this was about 7 years ago so I was 11 and having to feed and raise my 3 younger siblings whilst the bitch would be busy vomiting in the bathroom or passed out on the floor. That was fun. My dad was busy working himself to the bone because if he didn't the absurd amount of debt run up by her would have put us all on the street.
It's amazing what a drunk with a credit card can spend on wine, shoes, clothes, cigarettes and fancy meals out with some scumbag boyfriend that she cheated on my dad with. £60,000 of debt. -blam!-ing $100,000 of debt for you Americans. It's just disgusting.
Then the icing on the cake, after being unconcious from prevening until about 9pm she would put on the same three -blam!-ing CDs all night. All -blam!-ing night the house would be filled with the wailing hollering BITCH from Within Temptation. or Take That or the Pirates of the Carribean soundtrack.
Now imagine a tiny cottage, with a surround sound speaker system that shook the bloody house. All night, every night with some -blam!-ing shite blasting through the speakers. If you tried to turn it down... you'd just get it turned up full volume and a slap.
Good god I hated her. I still do, what she did to me and my brothers is unforgivable. And yet I have to play nice with her and pretend that I've forgiven her and all this other shit that I have to silver tounge to get her to shut the -blam!- up and get off the phone.
She left us in 2009 and is now living in hastings being smacked around by the piece of shit she left my dad for.
-blam!-ing hilarious karma right there. I'll still kill the bastard if I ever meet him again, but I might thank him first.
*Sigh*
I haven't vented about this in a loooooong time.
Tl;Dr - Don't bother.
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Wow, that sucks. I had some shit growing up, but I could always depend on my family at least.
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Yeah :/ Thankfully my dad is about the most reliable and hardworking person I know, if he hadn't been as brilliant at keeping us all alive (And borderline sane) then we'd be one of those families who eats hitchhikers by now I think.
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I hope this doesn't offend you, Mr P, but the image in my head of your mom blasting the Pirates theme in the middle of the night made me burst out laughing ::
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Haha yeah it's ok :P It made me laugh as well.
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To tell the truth I've done same thing with the Oblivion theme.
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There is nothing wrong with it provided you aren't sleep depriving 4 children for 6 years ._.
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Well, it's always good to get things off your chest.
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Quick question. What does TI;Dr mean?
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Too Long; Didn't Read
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K thanks.
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No problem!
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Edited by lonepaul2441: 12/20/2013 2:11:52 AMToo long, didn't read
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Damn... I know what you mean about the pretending to be nice thing, I have to do it and all I hear is "It's ok if you get drunk, go ahead we'll still like you" coming from my mouth.
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It's just a matter of bullshitting them until they leave you alone and you can get on with your day/life. I hate alcohol so much, it's just... ugh.
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Nothing wrong with Alcohol , it's the people that drink it that are the problem...... mostly. Some people have little self control, or they have something they really want to forget and alcohol does the job.
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Either way, I hate the stuff with a loathing that makes hitler seem like a jew's best friend.
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funny irrelevant fact: he was a jew's best friend. he allowed some loyal full blooded jews into his Waffen SA(his body gaurd corps) and was personal friends with them.
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Huh, I knew he wasn't always a full blown anti-semite but I did not know that.
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I used to be too scared to stop my dad and he used to call me his "Friend" I spent my nights scared of him, knowing whats going to happen and I was too much of a coward to stop him. Even when I did get the courage to try and stop him he would pretend he won't go and get a bottle, 10 mins later he would sneak out anyway. Now I got to the point were I will stop him he just slags me off, used and abused....literally. I got to the point were I don't want to be like him so I will never drink to the point of being drunk, just incase something snaps inside my head and causes me to be like him.
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Addiction does tend to run in families so I just don't even touch the stuff, It's easier to go teetotal than to risk falling into that sort of hell. The one thing that I did gain from all those years of shit, was an overactive sense of responsibility. I don't do stupid stuff, I work hard and I take things fairly seriously. Someone has to in my benighted family.
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Well my dad and his siblings are all alcoholics me and my brothers have so far avoided turning out like him and they do say 1 out of every 3 kids will be an allcoholic.... If there is 3 of us in the family and non of us have turned out that way, I guess we proved the stats wrong.
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Well, I do hope it has skipped you and your siblings.
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I like Hastings, gud hobby shop.