[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Marinade [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Marinade [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [b]We're not official or anything[/b], but we have been dating for the past few months.[/quote] Then you're not dating. Since you are not official I don't see why you'd think other guys shouldn't be flirting with her. Either start an actual relationship, or it's your fault.[/quote] Whoever gave you the idea that dating means you have to be in a long term relationship? A lot of the time it leads to that and continues during that but doesn't mean it is exclusive for long term relationships.[/quote] You said yourself that you are not official. By the sounds of things you've gone on some dates, but that's it. If you haven't discussed and agreed to be in an exclusive relationship, then you aren't in one. Either have that discussion or stop complaining that other guys are showing interest in a girl you aren't officially dating.[/quote] Probably won't have to make it known. I know the girl pretty well and those guys almost certainly have no chance with her. But yeah I'll still work towards that exclusivity. We're making good progress, and maybe in a few months I can get the job done.