We're not official or anything, but we have been dating for the past few months. Don't know if she is actually into me but we talk a lot. Anyway this dude keeps trying to talk to her as well even though she told me they aren't that close. So basically trying to hit on her. And it's pretty obvious he is being a little too nice even if he just wants to be friends with her. And actually there are two guys. She told me the other guy was just her good friend, but he actually bragged about her being his girlfriend and it's pretty obvious he really likes her. They actually went out several times too, but to my knowledge not in several months and only a few times.
Flood what should I do. I should I challenge them to a duel? Okay. But really, what should I do?
[Edited on 01.08.2013 2:52 AM PST]
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] I Judge Bread I Sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you, if she says yes then you need not worry. If she says no then you've been friend zoned because you left it too long.[/quote] We're probably going on another date soon so I'll see how that goes first. Then maybe afterwards I can bring up the topic.
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Slap his nuts.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] I Judge Bread I Sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you, if she says yes then you need not worry. If she says no then you've been friend zoned because you left it too long.[/quote] We're probably going on another date soon so I'll see how that goes first. Then maybe afterwards I can bring up the topic.[/quote] I'd suggest bringing it up during the date. Why leave it longer if you're pretty sure she already knows you want to? There's a decent chance she's starting to second guess that because you haven't gone for it yet.
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I seem to remember a lot of troll threads from you about your GF, somehow I'm having a hard time believing this. If you [i]are[/i] serious, then just talk to her about it.
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Kill him [Edited on 01.08.2013 5:05 AM PST]
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Congrats, your love interest is attractive, and obviously other guys wish to be in the position you are in.
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Pee on her, so they know she is your territory.
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flash yer nuts
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Marinade [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Slap My Nuts [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] I Judge Bread I Sit her down and ask her if she wants to be with you, if she says yes then you need not worry. If she says no then you've been friend zoned because you left it too long.[/quote] We're probably going on another date soon so I'll see how that goes first. Then maybe afterwards I can bring up the topic.[/quote] I'd suggest bringing it up during the date. Why leave it longer if you're pretty sure she already knows you want to? There's a decent chance she's starting to second guess that because you haven't gone for it yet.[/quote] Will try.
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make it official, then defend your -blam!-
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If she likes you, you'll get her. women always have options.
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Slap his nuts.
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You need to up your game OP. If they are showing more interest than you then she probably is more likely to go for them, I doubt she even knows you like her. Have you kissed? If so ask her if she wants to make it official. But to be honest OP I don't know the situation, only you can make an impact.
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If your relationship isn't official, then you can't complain.
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Have a 3 some.
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Make her your girl. You even said in your post you're not officially dating. So she's doing nothing absolutely wrong. You however are jealous.
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Dating for a few months and not official? That is a foreign concept to me. I usually always am "official" within the first month.
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What is this, middle school?
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Just think on how a dog would solve your problem. There is clearly an ownership challenge, which means your property wasn't properly marked. The only answer is that you must pee on her.
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As I tell all guys here who bring up situations like this here. Time for your foot to kick some ass. Edit: Scratch that, just read more of your posts. If it's not official and you two aren't in an exclusive relationship, you have no grounds. Make a move or deal with it. [Edited on 01.08.2013 12:15 PM PST]
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] MyNameIsCharlie Just think on how a dog would solve your problem. There is clearly an ownership challenge, which means your property wasn't properly marked. The only answer is that you must pee on her.[/quote] In other words, in case you probably didn't interpret it correctly, [b]make her your girl.[/b]
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obviously the guy wants to [b] SLAP YOUR NUTS[/b]