From [url=https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/104xx1r/comment/j37ygo0/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=web2x&context=3]Reddit:[/url] [quote]I was a hardcore player until my daughter was born last year. I’ve gone from a trials/nightfall try hard to a casual. Honestly I enjoy the game more now that I play it less. I probably went from almost 30 hours a week to less than 10 and now many of the things I’ve complained about in the past seem so silly now. FOMO doesn’t bother me because they always put new stuff in the game making old grinds irrelevant. Do you know how many times I did prophecy to never use any is the [redacted] I got in there? Do you know how many hours I spent in trials for Reed Regret just from them to throw Tapian in the game for free? I encourage everyone to take the causal approach. You will definitely enjoy the game more and I don’t feel guilty from spending way to much playing when I needed to other things.[/quote] Reply under: [quote]This is the secret to enjoying Density. I spent so much time grinding for the pinnacle weapons in crucible, only to have them obsolete with the next expansion or season. I would grind weapon drops over and over looking for that one perfect roll, and then end up never using the gun a couple weeks later. I would spend so much time looking for the absolute prefect roll out for a raid and almost no time raiding. Once I started to optimize what I did have instead of looking for the right roll or grinding, I had a lot more fun just enjoying the content. It is a beautiful game and the gun play and mechanics are best in class imo. Raids are really easy with suboptimal roll outs as long as you understand the mechanics, best just to hop in and go for it. Great game, but they really know how to induce FOMO and keep you grinding, I'm glad the grind in there, its fun sometimes, but the game is best enjoyed when you just roll with what you get, and playthrough all the beautiful content the game as to offer.[/quote] [b]From me:[/b] I'm not discounting that there are things that need fixing, but when I can guess someone's hypertension diagnosis based on their forum posts, it says a lot. Relax and enjoy the game.