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Edited by FoMan123: 3/20/2016 11:19:38 AM
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Why the Fight For LGBT Rights Didn't End With Marriage Equality

I'm seeing a lot of severely misinformed people around here who think that because same-sex marriage was finally legalized, that suddenly all of the struggles of the LGBT community are suddenly over. You could not be more wrong. The five major points from the article: 1. [b]Discrimination[/b]. It is still legal in the majority of states to discriminate against gay and trans people with regards to employment. Obama made gay and trans discrimination illegal for government jobs, but most jobs are not government jobs. So yeah, we can get married now... and then we can go to work the next day and get fired by our homophobic boss. 2. [b]Adoption[/b]. Many politicians (Republicans) and a lot of the public are still against gay adoption, and while it is now legal in almost every state, Republican politicians nation-wide are actively trying to repeal those rights. 3. [b]Homelessness[/b]. Due to a combination of job discrimination and unaccepting, unloving parents, 40% of homeless youth are gay and trans. This affects trans youth even harder, and homeless trans youth are disproportionately sexually assaulted at homeless shelters. 4. [b]Trans rights[/b]. Discrimination, bullying, and hate crimes are even [i]worse[/i] against trans people than they are against gay people. 41% of trans people have attempted suicide, generally due to lack of acceptance, inability to afford (and lack of insurance coverage for) trans-related medical care, or due to homelessness caused by inability to find work because of discrimination. In addition, Republicans all over the country are continuing to attempt to roll out "bathroom bills" that would force trans people into unsafe spaces. 5. [b]HIV and AIDS[/b]. This doesn't so much have to do with equality, but it's still an important issue. HIV and AIDS disproportionally affect gay men, and this has been a major issue for the community since the 80s. Some points of my own I'd like to add: 6. [b]Panic defense[/b]. In 49 out of 50 states (California being the exception) it is still totally legal to use what's called the "gay/trans panic defense." This where the person who has committed a hate crime against a gay or trans person will claim "self defense" and "temporary insanity" in response to finding out their victim was gay or trans. This is 100% real and is used successfully to this day. 7. [b]Sex education[/b]. Sex ed is already lacking, even for straight people. "Abstinence only" sex ed has been proven to be completely ineffective, and yet it is still widely taught across the country. But even more unfortunate is that sex ed in schools is entirely heteronormative. If you're gay or trans and need to learn about the birds and the bees, heterosexual sex ed isn't going to be very useful. In order for all people, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, to be able to enjoy [i]safe[/i] sex, sex ed must account for everyone, not just straight people. 8. [b]Representation[/b]. Gay and trans people are egregiously underrepresented in TV and film, media outlets that almost everyone goes to for entertainment and escapism. If you are straight and cisgender, you will find loads of relatable characters on screen. If your'e gay or trans, it's very hard to find relatable characters. Furthermore, trans people especially are commonly the butt of disgustingly offensive jokes in movies, usually as a way of poking fun at a straight man's sexuality. This lack of representation and horrible caricaturization teaches gay and trans youth that they are less important than others because they don't see people like themselves on TV. 9. [b]Education and acceptance[/b]. Even if all of the things previously mentioned are fixed, that doesn't mean that everyone suddenly accepts us. Making workplace discrimination illegal doesn't stop prejudiced employers from coming up with other excuses to not hire us. Making punishments harsher for hate crime perpetrators doesn't stop hate crimes from happening. Equality in the eyes of the law doesn't end oppression. The only way for the LGBT community to truly have equal standing in society, to not be deemed "lesser," is by educating people. We have to teach people that we're born this way, we don't choose it. We have to teach people that gender and sexuality are fluid, and that falling anywhere on the spectrum is valid. We have to teach people that everyone deserves basic human decency and respect,. We have to teach people to celebrate our differences rather than using them to divide us. We have to undo this archaic, traditionalist heteronormativity and cisnormativity in our culture that perpetuate hatred and oppression. My gay and trans brothers, sisters, and non-binary siblings are still dying for our cause. Every day I see a new article about a gay or trans person being attacked or killed, or committing suicide because their parents refuse to love them. [b][i]This fight is far from over.[/i][/b] Now please stop trying to convince me that my community has achieved equality. Your ignorance will be ignored.

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  • Let it go bro...everyone is moving on

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  • God damnit. Why the f[b][/b]uck can't people just accept the fact that no one will ever be equal? [spoiler]YES, I DO GIVE ZERO FU[b][/b]CKS ABOUT SOCIETY![/spoiler]

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  • If you guys want everything even, call it LGTBQH.. And prettrly soon we will be adding more letters from the alphabet :/

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    • Don't care.

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      • This thread is like a massive warzone of homosexuals and allied homophobes and edgy teenagers.

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        • I would say something but I don't really give a crap about gays wanting to ruin society.

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        • I physically, psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually cringed.

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          • You know people don't have to accept you, right? You know why? It's because they have a basic human right to not to. People can have their own opinions no matter how -blam!-ed up they are. Someone somewhere probably believes that people should be put to death for tripping in public.

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          • [quote]40% of the homeless youth are gay or trans[/quote] What about the other 60%? Yeah it's shit that 40% are on the LGBT spectrum, but that is a minority Also did you know that: [quote]The glass is half empty[/quote]

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            • This is not important but what is a real and upcoming issue is attack helicopter rights Long have our people suffered and we will fly in the sky like eagles once more #Attack Helicopter Rights 2016

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                Preaching to the choir here, a mostly deaf one tbh.

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              • "The best way to stop racism is to stop talking about it." -Morgan Freeman Not about discrimination against gays but still applies.

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                • Gay sex should never be taught in schools.

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                    People aren't always going to like other people and what other people do, so you can't expect to force that. Also, about the HIV statistics…it's by biological process of semen and anal sex that the stats are skewed. They should be more careful. It seems most of the points you make are flawed in so many ways and can be countered by an infant. Sure, people have the right to do whatever they like with their own bodies and in their own privacy. Does that mean everybody has to approve of it? Absolutely not. Does it mean people don't have the right to think whatever they want about those people? Absolutely not. You stand by your right to be X, on the flip side people stand by their right to think X based on X people's decisions, actions or being. It's just the way human minds work and nobody will be able to change our biology any time soon. [spoiler]I'm not anti-gay or anything like that by the way.[/spoiler]

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                    • That fact that a person like Trump has so many supporters makes me have less faith in America and makes me think that this would be an even longer road than I might have thought before. Just come up here to Canada. We're not [i]perfect[/i], but..... you, know.

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                      • I can see where your coming from but why dont you post it some where more important than a video game forum?

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                      • You're 100% percent right. You're doing great work, anomaly. Great work.

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                      • I'm too tired to go onto detail, but I agree with u on some things and on others not so much.

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                      • #9: we are born this way =/= gender and sexuality are fluid 1. Gender = Sex 2. Sex = Chromosone of XY or XX 3. So Gender = XY or XX 4. Gender =/= sexuality 5. Sexuality is a phycological thing. 6. So stfu

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                        • 1. Freedom of association is one of the most important natural rights. You threaten my rights I threaten you. 2. If adoption is widely allowed then it's not being discriminated against. Also republicans do have a point. Being raised by gay parents isn't exactly perfect conditions for a child. It's infinitely times better than a single mother or being an orphan but it's still not ideal for child raising. 3. I have nothing to say besides that's a damn shame and I wish it were different 4. Once again it's a shame that trans people off themselves so much. A bad roll of genetics, hormones, and childhood settings can screw you up for your entire life. But it's not due to discrimination or un-acceptance. A trans person is more likely to kill themselves after they've undergone surgery and treatment. Right now letting people chop up their genitals is a better treatment than anything else but being trans and following through on their "gender" is an unhealthy thing to be and do. Also those horrible subhuman republicans trying to prevent -blam!- and sexual assault are soooo horrible for making people use the proper bathroom. 5. Gee I wonder why. Maybe it's due to the naturally more un-loyal and sexually active gay partnership that AIDS passes around more Some points of your own I'd like to comment on: 6. I don't know enough about this to comment 100% accurately but I imagine taking home some chick and right before I'm about to go in discovering she/he's been untruthful and has a dick would be pretty shocking and might [b]trigger[/b] a response similar to what one experiences after betrayal and shock. 7. It is truly a shame that the government not only appeals to the majority of people in their [b]public[/b] services, but also does it in terrible quality. 8. A minority in [b]real life[/b] being represented as a minority in the media is not an unnatural thing to happen. If you wan't gay or trans characters everywhere go on tumblr, deviantart, or fanfic.com 9. You're a delusional monster

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                          • Disgusting.

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                          • Realsexism.com

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                          • Why is this being downvoted?

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                            • I'm not fighting, but I am not hating. While I am at it, let's make one thing clear. STOP THE EXREMISTS! THEY -blam!-ING SUCK! THEY MAKE PEOPLE FEEL AWKWARD AND LIKE THEY ARE WORSE THAN THEM! IF YOU ARE FIGHTING FOR EQUALITY, THEN DONT FIGHT FOR MORE INEQUALITY. YOU KNOW WHERE THAT HAS HAPPENED? BLM AND BLACK RIGHTS! THEY FEEL WHITES KILL MORE THAN BLACKS, BUT (oh man the peeps will hate me for this) MORE CRIMES HAVE BEEN COMMITTED BY BLACKS THAN WHITES AND HISPANICS AND ASIANS AND OTHERS COMBINED! IT WAS PROVEN! -Rant over

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                              • Agreed, probably not the friemdliest place to talk about this sort of thing though sadly since some people here aren't open minded.

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                              • [quote]5. HIV and AIDS. This doesn't so much have to do with equality, but it's still an important issue. HIV and AIDS disproportionally affect gay men, and this has been a major issue for the community since the 80s[/quote] This is due to the promiscuity which runs rampant in the LGBT community. As somebody who struggles with homosexual attractions, I can tell you that lust plays a bigger factor than actual romance. Therefore it is not uncommon for members of the LGBT community to seek multiple partners. Therefore the transmission of STDs is a lot more rampant.

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