[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] JFKES [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Robobeast How do you propose a man exercises his -blam!-ity when his partner isn't as interested anymore? I believe you do not understand some of the realities of relationships and -blam!-ity. Believe me when I say that after two children women are not very interested in sex. At the moment your advice is simply for men to ignore it - nice one.[/quote]Then that is the partners problem. She is seeing intercourse as more of a one way thing for her. She should continue having intercourse with you, because she loves you, in the same way I guess you will help her tidy the house. You both have to do things which you don't really want yourself, in order to make the other happy. Of course people have needs, but resorting to other forms of stimulation is not the answer, they should instead asses the cause. I really do suggest you talk to your partner about it and explain how you feel. [i]- JFKES[/i][/quote] Therin lies the issue though, no matter how much the two of you talk about it there is the chance that she is just done with frequent sex, and nothing you say may be able to sway her. So what do you suggest? "Dealing" with it and growing bitter at your partner over such a thing? Surely you wouldn't suggest ending a relationship over one's prudish behavior. So what's the option?